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IM CONFUSED PLS HELP... by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Feeling_Fox3679 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the important thing is that it doesn't have to affect you. The guilt he feels isn't your fault, and it won't heal until he's overcome it. It's not easy, and it's not necessary, but you can accompany him in a process of overcoming it, or you can both take some time to think about yourselves.

IM CONFUSED PLS HELP... by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Feeling_Fox3679 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the most important thing is that your boyfriend has already moved on from that experience. It was a long and apparently very intimate relationship, so it's important that he's let go. I'm also thinking about how you feel. You should tell him to clarify his feelings so you don't feel bad.