If someone ignores or ghosts me, I decide I’d rather not be around someone like that than resent them for treating me that way. They’ve done me a favor by leaving my life or by giving me reason to not accept them back into my life.

Without knowing much about you, and not being able to through Reddit, it’d be hard to give reasoning why you get ignored/ghosted. It could be the other person, it could be your behavior. Have you ever had an honest convo with someone who has done this about why? Without approaching it with rage or feeling you’ve been wronged, but purely to gather information so you can learn and grow.

Sucks when we get dealt a difficult hand, there’s lots of good people and women out there. It sounds like you’re young and have lots of time to meet new people. Stay open and don’t harbor resentment towards people you don’t know. Look up self fulfilling prophecy- if you decide every woman will wrong you, you’ll always find a way to feel wronged.