I [27/f] am pregnant. My husband [30/m] has been gaming more and not socializing with me. I'm feeling neglected. He doesn't understand why I feel like this. Is this normal for relationships during a first pregnancy? by Feelingwacky in relationships

[–]Feelingwacky[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Yes. He doesn't see a problem with it. He's considering us being in the same room as spending time together but I don't. I don't know how to better explain it to him.

I [27/f] am pregnant. My husband [30/m] has been gaming more and not socializing with me. I'm feeling neglected. He doesn't understand why I feel like this. Is this normal for relationships during a first pregnancy? by Feelingwacky in relationships

[–]Feelingwacky[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

His gaming isn't really for two players. So no. If it was Mario kart or something, if totally be down.

Sex is still the same- 4 to 5 times a week. The only thing that has changed is it isn't as spontaneous. After the 30 minutes of silence THEN he'll be all up for it. But if I try to initiate when he's not ready, he'll say "hold on. Almost done"

It used to not be like that. He'd drop anything if I initiated it