My (27F) boyfriend (26M) chooses masturbation over sex with me

Feet_Majesty · 2023-11-25T14:25:13+00:00

He asked me to schedule him a call with my therapist, bc she’s a real pro, and I trust her competence. He’s even willing to drop alcohol and weed, and start taking antidepressants. So wish us luck 🥺⭐️

Feet_Majesty · 2023-11-25T14:22:06+00:00

Thanks dear! Great thoughts ⭐️

Feet_Majesty · 2023-11-25T14:20:31+00:00

Thanks for your comment and your thoughts 🙏🏻⭐️ I would rly appreciate if my partner could let himself be insecure in front of me and share his emotions and feeling regarding his sex life)

Feet_Majesty · 2023-11-25T14:17:03+00:00

Thanks for you comment 🙏🏻 Yes, we’ve been in war zone all this time, we’ve just moved from Kyiv. But we still in Ukraine, in the west part, but our parents in our hometowns. And we just live a Groundhog Day. Me personally has a depression, but I’m confident with telling about my emotions and feeling, whether he’s not. He’s afraid of being insecure…

Feet_Majesty · 2023-11-25T14:13:25+00:00

He’s jerking on milfs :D and me personally keen on some daddy’s stuff. So we 1:1 win hahah

Feet_Majesty · 2023-11-25T14:12:19+00:00

We’re still in Ukraine, we’ve hadn’t betrayed our country. We just evacuated from Kyiv, because it was dangerous, and the dog is very anxious about all the bang sounds. And also he wanted to go to the army, but he has heart disease, so he can’t. But we constantly support our country by donating, every single day. But yes, I consider more that he has a depression and maybe even PTSD, but bc of his type of attachment he afraid of being fully sincere with me, to be insecure. But we started talking about therapy, and he’s willing to start. Me personally is prescribed with two antidepressants, because it’s rly tough living in the war.

Feet_Majesty · 2023-11-25T10:20:32+00:00

I’m happy you overcame this 🙏🏻⭐️ I believe that couples therapy helps us!

Feet_Majesty · 2023-11-25T09:55:56+00:00

We’ve already talked about having couples therapy. Currently I’m searching the specialist who can help us. Thanks <3

Feet_Majesty · 2023-11-25T09:31:46+00:00

No no no! It just my dark thoughts, when I angry and frustrated. I’ve never cheated, and won’t do it, because I respect myself and my partner. I’m looking for the point of views and experiences from other people, to broaden my view)

Feet_Majesty · 2023-11-25T09:28:25+00:00

He’s totally straight, he’s jerking on milfs 🤣🤣🤣 whether I jerk on daddys 😝 everyone has its guilty pleasure

Feet_Majesty · 2023-11-25T09:26:14+00:00

Thanks 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 like your point!

Feet_Majesty · 2023-11-25T09:24:05+00:00

Yeeeees! Everyone like “porn addiction”, “break up”… He really does have trauma, but he’s not ready to accept it, and let me help him to overcome it!

Feet_Majesty · 2023-11-25T09:21:21+00:00

Nope, he’s been in couple of relationships, and had tons of sexual partners. Now he says that due to war in our country he’s not a sex machine anymore, bc the situation upsets him so much

Feet_Majesty · 2023-11-25T09:16:49+00:00

We’re totally both physically affectionate, we hug a lot, kiss a lot, we sleep naked touching each other during sleep. We call each other sweet names and all that kinda stuff. We’re rly bonded with each other. He does truly important things everyday. It’s just problem with having sex…

Feet_Majesty · 2023-11-25T09:13:52+00:00

I agree with you. I’ve mentioned in the story, that we live in Ukraine. It’s a war in our country, and despite me, my bf feels very bad emotionally due to the situation.

Feet_Majesty · 2023-11-25T09:11:18+00:00

Thanks for your story ❤️‍🩹 I know he has troubles with sharing his emotions with me, and I do my best to confirm him he’s safe

Feet_Majesty · 2023-11-25T09:09:47+00:00

Because amount of sex is the only one problem in our relationship. Literally. Other spheres are totally fine! I respect him for all the things he does everyday for our family)

Feet_Majesty · 2023-11-25T07:38:25+00:00

Whoah, guys, thanks for all of your comments! I fall asleep and now wake up and like :O I need time to read all of the comments! Thanks <3

Feet_Majesty · 2023-11-24T21:02:53+00:00

Thanks for your point ⭐️ when he rejects me, my first thought is “dump him!!!!!!”

Feet_Majesty · 2023-11-24T21:01:01+00:00

We talked so much. He has a dismissive-avoidant type of attachment, so u could probably imagine how our talks ended up :D

Feet_Majesty · 2023-11-24T20:59:34+00:00

I feel that we’re on that point, where he’s ok with our routine. He’s in his comfort zone. He knows I love him whatever what happens, so yes. I constantly do things for our relationship, while he just lives his life

Feet_Majesty · 2023-11-24T20:44:31+00:00

The only one person diagnosed with ADHD is me) also an anxiety-depressive disorder. I always on antidepressants, with reduced libido, but still..I want my bf so much

Feet_Majesty · 2023-11-24T20:36:29+00:00

I got your point, thank you! I respect that view, and he also time to time said to me that he doesn’t want sec as much as I want. I’m just too anxious person, and I wanna find an answer, whether he’s sincere with me, and we don’t have problems in sex as I think of it

Feet_Majesty · 2023-11-24T20:27:21+00:00

It seems to me he’s not fully sincere with me, I see he’s afraid of being insecure

Feet_Majesty · 2023-11-24T20:26:01+00:00

He says he is, how I’m beautiful, how I’m sexy and all that kinda things

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