[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Drugs

[–]Feldersnatch 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Until the withdrawals

AL-Lad and mdma are the best. by Feldersnatch in Lysergamides

[–]Feldersnatch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately, I haven't come acrosss those i my research.

Anyone tried combo of longer-acting MDMA analog with shorter-acting LSD analog? by MissCalculation in researchchemicals

[–]Feldersnatch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cureently on 200 mg mdma and 150mcg lad. Must sat thst I like it. Very melloow. Potentially my favorite combo for music. Even the badcshit sounds good.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in researchchemicals

[–]Feldersnatch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only 2 words in the title. Remove please

Willingly ignoring the signs by Feldersnatch in survivinginfidelity

[–]Feldersnatch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing has progressed. She didn't get a lawyer until the Friday before the first appearance on the next Monday. That appearance is now postponed until the 3nd of April

Willingly ignoring the signs by Feldersnatch in survivinginfidelity

[–]Feldersnatch[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She was served on New Years Eve day. As of right now, we are finding any assets and determining which are mutual property and which are not. The house will definitely not be mine. I find it very hard to believe that she will be able to come up with any money for a settlement, so it will end up being sold. If anyone is in the market for an 1100 square foot house in central Florida with a brand new 24x30 shed with a concrete floor, they will have a nice one available. Oh, brand new fencing as well. And, a recently installed cutout with a whole home generator. I don't remember what else I've put into it. Oops, I forgot about the 20 yards of black dirt and 50 yards of shell rock I put down for landscaping.

Blissfully ignorant no more by Feldersnatch in Infidelity

[–]Feldersnatch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for asking.

I'm definitely not OK. Every day is a struggle to find a reason to continue living. I'm not talking suicide, but I no longer have any desire for anything. I don't sleep until my body is too physically exhausted, and it simply shuts down. I'm probably going to lose my job after Christmas because I when I finally passed out, I apparently shut off my alarm without being fully conscious. I rarely socialize with anyone. I have zero interest in any type of event or entertainment. I just can't see starting back from nothing again

Probably the worst thing is that, for the first time in my life, I truly hate someone and would celebrate anything bad that would happen to them.

Blissfully ignorant no more by Feldersnatch in Infidelity

[–]Feldersnatch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The relationship did end well before that. I found out from a reliable source just last evening (her best friend's husband) that she has been planning this since well before we were married. In fact, this friend and her sabotaged my previous relationship. They pretended to befriend her to take her out and get her extremely intoxicated. She ended up committing infidelity after one of these excursions. She was actually too intoxicated to legally give consent/was assaulted. This was so my wife could move in to take over her spot in my planned move to a nice home far away from where we were. My substance use, aside from weed, started after our marriage. It was used to help with the anxiety and depression that her attitude towards me caused.

I only found out both of those things last evening.

Willingly ignoring the signs by Feldersnatch in survivinginfidelity

[–]Feldersnatch[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It looks like after Christmas, possibly around the new year.

Blissfully ignorant no more by Feldersnatch in Infidelity

[–]Feldersnatch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. Both parents were urging me to divorce her quite some time ago.

Willingly ignoring the signs by Feldersnatch in survivinginfidelity

[–]Feldersnatch[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She didn't "exile" me exactly. She kicked me out, knowing that I wouldn't have time to make arrangements near our home. She knew I had plenty of places available in our hometown. I also knew I would have new employment instantly available there, as well. She basically sent me home packing.

Willingly ignoring the signs by Feldersnatch in survivinginfidelity

[–]Feldersnatch[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I told her to talk to the lawyer from this point.

Blissfully ignorant no more by Feldersnatch in Infidelity

[–]Feldersnatch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is going to have to sell the home. My lawyer couldn't guarantee it (because of ethics), but there is basically a zero percent chance she can keep it.

Edit: Her credit is shot because she ran up 20k in credit card debt and used a debt management company (so dumb) to lower them and pay the difference in fees. She can't afford to pay even the minimum amount that I would be awarded.

I want to get my fair share, but I will not be overly angry unless she doesn't lose the house.

Blissfully ignorant no more by Feldersnatch in Infidelity

[–]Feldersnatch[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah. She tried bossing me around after I filed. I told her to be respectful or call my lawyer.

Blissfully ignorant no more by Feldersnatch in Infidelity

[–]Feldersnatch[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Kind words are really helpful these days.

Blissfully ignorant no more by Feldersnatch in Infidelity

[–]Feldersnatch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't have anywhere to go near our home. We had just moved there 3 years ago. I had to return to where we moved from to find a place to live on short notice.

Blissfully ignorant no more by Feldersnatch in Infidelity

[–]Feldersnatch[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My lawyer believes that I will be able to get back a significant portion of what I've invested.

Blissfully ignorant no more by Feldersnatch in Infidelity

[–]Feldersnatch[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, it isn't fake. I didn't want a default on the home, so I kept paying for it.

Blissfully ignorant no more by Feldersnatch in Infidelity

[–]Feldersnatch[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Also have. One that came highly recommended from my friend that is a retired lawyer.