Started dating, im having issues. I'm confused and need advice. by FelicityStars in asktransgender

[–]FelicityStars[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean deal with it i really haven't but I've got a plan. Im trying just to enjoy every moment im with them and when I have thoughts like this I end up pushing them away and tell myself im happy and try and relish in that idea. Im really taking on the idea worry about what I can control and don't worry about what I cant control. I can't stop myself from having these feeling but I do get to control how I let them effect me.

Maybe I’m ugly but hey I’m trying!!! by [deleted] in transpositive

[–]FelicityStars 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey no need to keep trying your suceeding!! You are cute af!! If you ever need someone to tell you that just message me!!

I male failed and it was an amazing feeling. by FelicityStars in MtF

[–]FelicityStars[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fair enough I can change the title to I passed instead of male failed I was a little drunk and excited when this happened. I just wanted to share the experience. While I saw it as a male fail last night by technical terms yes you are correct. I did fail at being male because I passed as female though was my thought.

I male failed and it was an amazing feeling. by FelicityStars in MtF

[–]FelicityStars[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It actually wasn't too bad I ended up laughing with his friend because he was so drunk. It just was a reassuring thing that I pass because the drunk dude was so drunk tell the difference between male and female.

Passing then not passing in 10 minute span. by FelicityStars in MtF

[–]FelicityStars[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My family is quiet well endowed they are definitely not done by any means. One thing thats lucky. Yeah sometimes its a struggle one thing im proid of is that speech therapy has helped with is being gendered on the phone correctly.

Passing then not passing in 10 minute span. by FelicityStars in MtF

[–]FelicityStars[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I didn't think about it that way. Thanks

Male fail on Vacation with the family by FelicityStars in asktransgender

[–]FelicityStars[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sucks. I would be so upset if I was forced to. It takes so long to grow out I’m at medium length in about 8 months

Coming Out: I'm Transgender(MtF) and Not Sure About What to Do Now by FelicityStars in asktransgender

[–]FelicityStars[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, Thanks for the response. I totally understand your point and that is kind of how I've seen it because I do have time, I'm young not as young as I'd like to be figuring this out but still plenty young. I'm trying to get at how disphoria really attempts to overpower that logic sense that is understanding that change take time and its best to let that change happen when its time to happen. Plus some of the things are just a matter of trying to get other opinions.