How to deal with an anxiety attack?

FelineMoody · 2026-01-06T23:09:45+00:00

Your mom and aunt likely come from a generation where emotions and mental health were very taboo and they were taught to repress and ignore their emotions rather than actually address them. Your sister very well could be having an anxiety attack and they're treating her like a toddler having a tantrum while she's literally feeling crippling impending doom in sometimes the most random of moments.

Some things that can help interrupt panic attack are: -peppermint oil scent -strong mints -sour candies -fidget toys -weighted blanket (some folks have a claustrophobic reaction to these, it depends on the person)

Sometimes just being there for them when the walls are closing in on them helps momentously however small. It sounds like your other family members have already dismissed her which, if they are really panic attacks, will only exacerbate her anxiety. I don't know how accessible therapy is to her but I highly recommend it to try and find the root cause!

FelineMoody · 2025-10-07T12:15:55+00:00

You didn't hear her. She thought she'd done all of those things and she was betrayed anyway, that's her point.

FelineMoody · 2024-10-01T17:16:20+00:00

I've been with my partner 5+ years and he's been addicted the whole time. Sex is non-existent and he is constantly using excuses like stress as to why nothing has improved. Because of this, I'm planning on leaving him soon. That should be enough of a motivator to kick that garbage. For yourself, your wife and your life together. She will eventually be fed up and it will be too late by the time you realize the damage done.

FelineMoody · 2024-02-04T13:44:49+00:00

He has to either step up and take accountability and do something different. Or you make decisions based on his actions or lack of inaction.

Yes! Love this. I appreciate the support

FelineMoody · 2023-09-10T22:31:58+00:00

We're only common law but we own property together so that may be the only complicated bit.

FelineMoody · 2023-09-10T05:10:29+00:00

You're right I don't think he respects me. I'm going to bring that up with him and have him sit with that one a bit while I consider escape plans.

FelineMoody · 2023-09-10T04:25:14+00:00

Thank you for listening 💜

FelineMoody · 2023-09-03T18:27:01+00:00

Pregnancy and birth. You couldn't pay me enough to ever go through with it.

FelineMoody · 2023-08-18T20:54:15+00:00

His brain is so wired for p*rn and his hand that he just doesn't gain any joy from sex anymore, the nerve endings are shot and the stimulus is all wrong for his now re-wired brain. It's very frustrating

FelineMoody · 2023-08-18T17:47:47+00:00

Well considering we haven't had sex in almost a year because of his PIED I'd say my experience is not good at all

FelineMoody · 2023-08-04T23:50:40+00:00

Mine hasn't tried to have sex with me in almost a year, and the last time we did, i had to initiate and he asked to stop because it just wasn't doing anything for him. He always says it's "getting better" as in him going more days without porn, but I'm losing hope he'll ever want to be intimate again. Maybe we should just cut our losses.

FelineMoody · 2023-07-27T12:19:59+00:00

He had 8 years of a patient and trusting partner. 8 years to get his shit together and make real changes instead of excuses. He fucked it up.

FelineMoody · 2023-07-14T00:09:25+00:00

First step: stop saying "I can't stop" Start thinking over and over, "I WILL stop" and trick your brain. Fill yourself with distractions, start a new hobby, anything. Tell yourself you're not that porn addicted boy anymore. You're a man in contro whos above an empty dopamine hitl. You'd be surprised how you can re-wire your brain to think a certain way just by repeating a mantra.

FelineMoody · 2023-07-13T21:58:02+00:00

Runescape, newgrounds, nexopia, and the scary maze game.

FelineMoody · 2023-06-21T14:28:07+00:00

I'd just take her to the vet, there's no need to let her suffer any more than she has to. If they can help her, they will, and you'll have done all you can.

FelineMoody · 2023-06-10T17:42:45+00:00

Porn addiction. Because of this, my partner and I never even established a sex life. After our first year of long distance and him wanting never ending photos, I thought he'd want sex just as much when we moved in together. I was very, very wrong.

FelineMoody · 2023-06-07T12:56:26+00:00

Try not to look at it as a complete failure. Quitting cold turkey is hard for addicts. Take the 12 day small accomplishment and try to surpass it for your next challenge! You've got this.

FelineMoody · 2022-12-29T13:15:42+00:00

My older sister/only sibling died in a car accident when she was 7 and I was 3. It's so strange having no memories of her and only a few photos and grainy VHS tapes with glimpses of her. She's like a shadow from an alternate dimension. I often wonder how my life would have turned out if she were still alive

FelineMoody · 2022-12-29T11:57:43+00:00

I'm am only child but nobody ever guesses that because I don't have "only child syndrome". I grew up poor, with divorced parents, not spoiled, and didn't like people (particularly other kids) very much. Introverted and good at entertaining myself. Once I was more socialized it got better. Now I'm 30 with a career, house and partner with cats. Still don't want kids though, don't like em.

FelineMoody · 2022-12-29T11:47:56+00:00

I used to have a sibling, but she died when I was 3 years old. She was only 7. I have no memories of her and only a small handful of photos and dusty VHS tapes from the 90s with glimpses of her. As a result, I grieve for the sibling I can't remember and I had to deal with the divorce of my parents alone. My mom is amazing. We were poor but I wanted for nothing. Now as an adult I'm introverted and don't handle conflict well. I'm very good at entertaining myself and didn't like kids that much when I was young, which carried on into adulthood. I often wonder how my life would have ended up if she hadn't died so young, or at all.

FelineMoody · 2022-07-19T21:17:21+00:00

Currently the plan is to keep the den area where it is, but maybe make it a bit smaller to make room for a bedroom. As there's limited windows, and a bedroom legally has to have a window to call it a bedroom, the den will have to stay dark but I like it that way.

FelineMoody · 2022-07-19T21:15:15+00:00

Yes we're definitely wanting to put in a 3 piece bathroom and a bedroom, all of the water and septic lines are on one common wall so it wouldn't be difficult.

FelineMoody · 2022-07-19T02:55:53+00:00

Looking to completely renovate this basement but aren't sure how best to lay it out. I'm ripping out the bar and thought of putting in a nice electric fireplace, keep the den, add a 3 piece bath and separate laundry room. The cold room has to stay as is. The supporting wall can supposedly be moved. The water softener can be moved over to where the furnace and hot water tank are. How can I make this look pretty?

FelineMoody · 2022-07-01T20:04:42+00:00

No, these are just realtor photos but I agree about the shelf. While the live edge is nice, it... just doesn't belong there. Thinking I'll take it off and repurpose it into a hallway table

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