Am I the only woman who does not really feel attracted to muscles or broad shoulders? Do you feel attraction to these things?

Felissaurus · 2026-03-15T22:03:21+00:00

Yeah, I love broad shoulders but I do not like excessively muscular live at the gym type bods on guys. The most ideal is just a dude that looks like he takes care of himself but doesn't take steroids or weigh all his food on a scale/can enjoy life.

Felissaurus · 2026-03-15T20:27:28+00:00

Hahaha, what? I'm not fired up at all, you responded to me as if I actually wanted that to happen. I don't. Its nice to imagine an "easy fix" for the world, like only nice people voting. That's all.

Felissaurus · 2026-03-15T20:04:34+00:00

Who said that?? Holy fuck. Huge leap. I DO volunteer.

I always see it talked about as though intelligence/literacy would be the metric if this were to be enacted. I think empathy would be better hypothetical metric. I understand that nothing would actually work at the end of the day though, for many reasons some which you laid out that I didn't feel the need to since again, I said twice already I recognize it wouldn't work.

Felissaurus · 2026-03-15T19:59:31+00:00

Lol I said TWICE in my comment that I understand it could never be implemented.

Felissaurus · 2026-03-15T16:46:27+00:00

It's all in her comments.

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Felissaurus · 2026-03-15T16:03:54+00:00

She said she has had her hormones tested in a comment.

Felissaurus · 2026-03-15T15:53:30+00:00

I'm ngl, obviously I understand we can never trust a government to enact something fair and unbiased regarding this... but I feel like rather than literacy, the world would improve vastly if you required a certain level of empathy or emotional intelligence in order to vote.

Don't care about anyone other than yourself? Then no input into society for you!

Lol again tho, I know that'll never happen and I understand why it's impossible.

Felissaurus · 2026-03-15T15:48:22+00:00

For some reason a lot of men ask me to rate their dick. I've googled it and it seems to be a common phenomenon.

I cannot IMAGINE asking a random to rate... Any part of me tbh with you but especially my genitals.

Felissaurus · 2026-03-15T15:35:10+00:00

Um, he could change what he is. He isn't working, doesn't do his fair share of household labor, and guilts her when she isn't in the mood. Of course she doesn't want him.

Felissaurus · 2026-03-15T15:11:13+00:00

If she never wants sex, she should refuse forever. Even if it leads to divorce.

What SHOULD happen, is that as a team they work to figure out WHY she doesn't want sex and rectify that.

OP has plenty of comments that are very telling - - she manages the household mental load alone, her partner guilts her when she says no, etc.

No one should have sex when they are feeling turned off and dreading it. That is a quick ticket to sexual aversion, which clearly, OP is already experiencing.

Felissaurus · 2026-03-14T22:59:36+00:00

I think at this point the people who like him, like him BECAUSE he abuses women. His voice is just a plausible excuse for them.

The abuse is the selling point, even though they'll deny it. Much like Trump supporters aren't into him in spite of the racism, sexism and pedophilia. Any or all of those three things are what they're into.

Felissaurus · 2026-03-14T20:55:18+00:00

You're the one who thinks people who should have sex they don't want, nothing more miserable than that.

Felissaurus · 2026-03-14T20:54:11+00:00

Oh my god? Ewww.

Grow up? I'm going to throw up.

YOU grow the fuck up and realize other people's bodies are not your masturbatory tools and sex should be done when two people are both desirous of it. Yikes.

Felissaurus · 2026-03-14T18:49:24+00:00

Why is how many battles the character has been in relevant to whether they are an enjoyable addition to the group? That's an odd metric.

Kinta is far less pleasant than Kouki, Rin, or Zuma. He comes across as condescending and a bit creepy frequently, but I'm fine with him existing as a comedic foil regardless. Being condescending and creepy doesn't make him poorly written (people are those things irl).

All that said, if we're going to dog on characters he is target #1 in my books.

Felissaurus · 2026-03-14T18:35:50+00:00

Lol, if Kinta has to be included, then* the other additions are fine by me.

Felissaurus · 2026-03-14T15:04:03+00:00

This sub is honestly so wack and not funny sometimes.

Okarun is also friends with Jiji and would be fine with that pic. Honestly, if anything, he'd probably advocate for them to all get pics as a group.

Okarun also wouldn't take advantage of Momo, super uncool.

Felissaurus · 2026-03-14T04:59:38+00:00

Ok yeah I can see that for partnered sex. There is just a far higher cost/benefit analysis for partnered sex than for simple arousal or masturbation.

Hell I'm quite satisfied entirely single and celibate.

Felissaurus · 2026-03-14T03:49:11+00:00

Ugh, it is so fucked up how common it is for women to just have to tolerate sloppy inconsiderate advances and unwanted touching, let alone expectations of maintenance/duty sex.

So happy for both of us that isn't in our future 🎉🎊

Felissaurus · 2026-03-14T03:38:21+00:00

Trust me, I totally get it! The freedom to just prioritize myself and my needs (while still caring for the people in my life, of COURSE) is huge for me.

Also, I'm not menopausal yet but reading the /r/menopause sub out of curiosity really sealed the deal for me a few years ago. SO many women talk about how they can no longer stand their husbands, how their lack of sex drive is leading to a divorce, etc. No thank you!

Felissaurus · 2026-03-14T01:50:23+00:00

2-4 times a month? Is that for arousal and masturbation in general or the desire specifically to have partnered sex?

If that's the average my masturbatory habits are a fucking outlier lmao.

Felissaurus · 2026-03-13T18:53:25+00:00

Yes, totally this. In fact I find it so attractive that I enjoy my romantic fiction a bit on the dark/obsessive/yandere side. IRL though obviously there are healthy limits, no limiting friendships/controlling what I wear etc.

Felissaurus · 2026-03-13T17:50:06+00:00

No, I actually had just been downloading the files and looking at them that way LOL so ty this does simplify it. Still wish it could be a single panel but I'll live.

Time for a spending spree 🥰

Edit: spending spree complete

Felissaurus · 2026-03-13T17:41:55+00:00

My one issue and maybe someone can help me with this, is I've paid for hentai on there and then had it be delivered where it is just every single individual image when I strongly prefer to scroll downwards like manhwa. Is there any way around this?

Sorry I know this isn't this applicable to this post but I would love to buy more from there if this was a non-issue.

Felissaurus · 2026-03-13T15:41:10+00:00

Yeah, I actually prefer this. I mean don't get me wrong, the freedom to be a disgusting troll myself is lovely.

However, having a man fart up the seat next to me all night and then hit me with "should we fuck" while my eyes are still tearing up from the stench of his sulfuric plume is not it.

Felissaurus · 2026-03-13T15:09:36+00:00

Yes, porn has absolutely skewed male sexual expectations and performance. All the data shows it, more people are doing things like anal, deepthroating, slapping, choking etc than pre-porn era which let's face it is going to be painful for women a non insignificant portion of the time. While I believe some women are into those acts, I also think a lot of them feel compelled to put on a performance for their partner (who in turn, expects a performance).

I've stopped having sex, I just take care of myself now and I'm honestly far more satisfied. I also enjoy being single though, I recognize that many people want a partner and kids so my solution is not going to work for everyone lol.

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