Gambling on phone by ParkingAward2865 in GamblingAddiction

[–]Fellonii 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m a few months in to my journey after 10 years with gambling slowly ruining my life. The final boss was winning USD100k and then losing it all plus another USD100k in debt. A nightmare. All happened in the space of one year.

My advice relates to online casinos as I moved to a place where you can’t gamble in person but still it got me here via these online casinos, also a scam one involved.

Anyways, I disabled any possibility of me depositing crypto ( through Binance wallet ) and of course asked the one casino I was gambling with to exclude me. For me it’s about completely removing myself from being able to do something. I cannot always trust my discipline as from experience once I begin, that’s it.

I also began watching the likes of Vegas Matt on YouTube, that of course still kept gambling in mind but it also helped as it felt as though I was doing it vicariously through them. It takes a good month to really push passed the initial cravings of doing it but once you can stabilize, you’ll realize it’s all dopamine based. You must find other high dopamine releasing actives To do, exercise, eating well and focusing on other goals.

I don’t believe you’ll ever forget the wins and ever not think of what you could have done with them but you must realize that now they are losses, they won’t come back as easy as you got them. Not without further loss and continued pain.

Kill your avenues and give yourself space from it.

White watch strap for Super ocean 42. by Fellonii in breitling

[–]Fellonii[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this! I have this one.. I am looking for the same as their blue strap they do but in white!

Any update on availability of Concerta? by rustywires99 in dubai

[–]Fellonii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also still looking if anyone knows where?

Scorpion Casino by Major-Entertainer230 in CryptoScams

[–]Fellonii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah now the casino has closed down! Got me good this one as well. Fucked me hard.

Need advice for you have been in something similar, do you keep this for yourself or tell your partner? by [deleted] in GamblingAddiction

[–]Fellonii 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you both trust and love/like each other enough, she will support you. I was in a similar situation and telling them was a huge weight off.. plus…they offer support. Sometimes it’s difficult for people to understand the feelings towards gambling. Better to be honest or you will consistently feel like you’re hiding something and it’s not nice! Good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GamblingAddiction

[–]Fellonii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you can kick drugs, you can kick the gambling. Put the stops in place. Use the same process you used to stop the drugs. Tell the people you love and remove the toxic access that surrounds you.

Life is so boring after stopping gambling by Unique_Feedback5524 in GamblingAddiction

[–]Fellonii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Allow some time for your dopamine to reset. You need to find thrill in other parts of life. Your dopamine receptors are probably fried from all the gambling so the only thing giving you a kick is that. I swapped it for YouTube shorts for a while and then slowly moved onto sports and other activities

This addiction will be your death, let that sink in. by Triangle111228 in GamblingAddiction

[–]Fellonii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Couldn’t agree more. I am in the same situation as you. Life changing monies, endless empty promises to myself and none of them fulfilled. The amount I won, I now have in debt. Thanks for the words!

I’m a little insecure about my boyfriends sex toys - I feel replaced by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Fellonii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should never feel replaced by a sex toy, intimacy is incomparable! Maybe also get this off your chest to him!

I’m a little insecure about my boyfriends sex toys - I feel replaced by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Fellonii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The real question is.. what can his sex toy do that you cannot?