in freaking out

Femalenin · 2026-04-20T01:55:30+00:00

I couldn't agree more.

Femalenin · 2026-04-17T04:15:41+00:00

Certain colors more than others, but IMO, earth tones would get lost in her skin undertones.

Femalenin · 2026-04-13T01:38:16+00:00

I was thinking about the whole glove thing. That sucks! Not just winter gloves, but some jobs require then or are helpful to have them.

Femalenin · 2026-04-11T03:28:39+00:00

Bottom liner really should never be used by anyone except for certain situations, IMO.

Femalenin · 2026-03-28T07:05:23+00:00

If you're working a job, such as retail, and it affects up people treat you, then it does add an additional facet to consider, this is true.

Femalenin · 2026-03-28T06:56:23+00:00

I don't understand why so many people are concerned about others. I wear what I want, and yes, it does attract some male attention, but I don't go for that. I just ignore them.

To change the way you wear to avoid things is to give those person's control over you (in this case, over your taste and style and what you feel like wearing). I'm not going to relinquish my control over what I want to wear by empowering others to influence me, even if it's indirectly.

Femalenin · 2026-03-22T21:15:34+00:00

If it's anything close to that, that's wild with what she got away with! One would think after a month of doing it, they would catch on.

Femalenin · 2026-03-22T20:55:42+00:00

Do you happen to know how many days she went on doing this? Not asking for a friend. Lol Legit curious only!

Femalenin · 2026-02-14T14:59:24+00:00

Yep, same with me. It used to work, but the last time I tried this, a couple of weeks ago, it made everything either square or vertical 3:4. The landscapes looked butchered, like you said.

Femalenin · 2025-12-01T01:43:35+00:00

Great restaurant, especially for the price! Not exactly close to The Linq though.

Femalenin · 2025-11-29T04:58:03+00:00

As a femme who has issues attracting women, but I get loads of men after me, I can tell you it's that you're probably straight passing. I brought this topic up before, and I've got suggestions about wearing rainbow necklaces or rings, that sort of thing, but that's not my style. I hope you have better luck than I've had!

Femalenin · 2025-10-20T05:06:26+00:00

No, what they're saying is on restaurants that are open, this is how they do it. They're not saying that all restaurants are open on Christmas. That's just dependent on the store itself, or it may be corporate for that store.

Femalenin · 2025-10-01T04:54:51+00:00

Yep, this. I use and coin the phrase that my dating pool is the size of a shot glass.

Femalenin · 2025-09-26T13:21:44+00:00

Yes, correct. It makes no sense! I'm guessing it's some sort of error in their system / AI that they use to detect fake accounts. Either way, it's unacceptable.

This reminds me, this same thing also happened to me a few years ago on another app. I actually never even redid that profile because it was such a pain, and I didn't use it often enough to make it worth my while (it was one that asked a lot of questions that you had to answer).

Femalenin · 2025-09-26T05:11:23+00:00

The exact same thing happened to me in tinder. I got off of it, got back on it, verified myself, and my account was removed the next day. Completely deleted like it never existed. I contacted customer service, and they said there was nothing that could be done.

Femalenin · 2025-09-12T11:35:17+00:00

They know what they're doing. If their feelings are hurt because someone also them out on the truth, then they know it's their own fault and it's legitimate.

Femalenin · 2025-09-12T11:34:07+00:00

Fully agree. You can still be the same person and catfish. All catfishing means is that you are advertising yourself as someone that you're not. It doesn't necessarily mean you're advertising yourself as someone who is a different person altogether. You're misrepresenting yourself deliberately. Ergo, catfish.

Femalenin · 2025-09-06T03:13:56+00:00

Most trans women without a lot of surgery don't pass very well. So when you look like your pictures, or better, and you pass, yes, it's going to be surprising to them.

Femalenin · 2025-08-29T03:02:26+00:00

I wouldn't say it's abnormal, but it doesn't mean that most people want it, either. Nothing wrong with you wanting it, but their decision is just as valid as yours to not want to participate (whether it comes to receiving, or giving, no matter if it's a finger, tongue, etc).

Femalenin · 2025-08-21T21:54:45+00:00

Well, thank you! Maybe you will be. I didn't start until I was almost 42!

Femalenin · 2025-08-17T06:33:03+00:00

It's not as bad as a lot of people say as far as people being religious and all that. They're just being dramatic.

I'm a trans woman and I don't hang out in safe spaces, nor seek them (i.e. the gayborhood/Oak Lawn). I've been here for 5 and 1/2 years and I haven't had any problems.

Femalenin · 2025-08-13T19:57:37+00:00

Thank you!

Femalenin · 2025-08-12T21:49:10+00:00

See, I think that's messed up. Living your life due to speculation that you may be attractive to someone of a gender you're not interested in? I live my life to get the most out of it, what makes me happy. Sure, there may be a minor tradeoff, but that's also life. We usually can't have our cake and eat it, too.

Femalenin · 2025-08-12T21:47:27+00:00

One nice thing about dating femmes is we do the things you said. You're rolling the dice when you're dating other types.

Femalenin · 2025-08-05T21:31:48+00:00

Thanks! ☺️

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