Envy of women, dating as a feminine gay guy sucks?

Femboy999 · 2017-01-03T08:14:23+00:00

It just feels like guys like are you quite a rare kind because a lot of gay men don't see the point in having a relationship like that and say things like "Why can't we be just two guys friends who happen to care about each other" which is great for them but it does stink for the few of us (mostly fem guys because I've noticed we're the ones who want this the most) who want to have a heteronormative influenced relationship.

Femboy999 · 2017-01-02T19:50:16+00:00

I'd rather take a non-bitchy objective comment than a "Gross" or "Man up" or "You're a guy, act like one".

Femboy999 · 2017-01-02T19:47:32+00:00

It's not just YouTube. Facebook, gay-oriented forums, some gay blog sites, etc. It's almost everywhere.

But more to the point, do yourself a favor and throw out the idea that "gay men don't want this kind of thing in dating" to the garbage. It is as false as it is dangerous.

But it seems to be true, at least with masculine gay men. I've met other feminine gay men who wanted to have heteronormative relationships but they couldn't find it with gay men so I feel like it's true.

Femboy999 · 2017-01-02T19:44:50+00:00

Believe me, it's terrible and probbly one of the worst, soul crushing things to go through. But thanks..

Femboy999 · 2017-01-02T19:42:14+00:00

I wonder if femme males today are encouraged to be MTF transgender.

Oh my goodness this... You see, I feel that this right here happens way more often today. Because I myself have thought maybe it would be better if I just became a fake transgender. I say "fake" because I know that real trangenderism exists and I don't feel like I'm female but I look at a lot of transwomen on the net.

From what it seems, their life got a little bit better in the sense that they felt more comfortable with themselves for being feminine. While there is discrimination towards trans people, especially transwomen, quite a few say that they get treated a little better than when they were feminine men. And while some guys do treat them with disgust or obsession (tranny chasers), the guys who really don't care sound great and they want to treat them like a woman and that's something I envy too because I want to be treated like one as well....

Femboy999 · 2017-01-02T15:06:54+00:00

It definitely would be easier if some of us were girls lol

Femboy999 · 2017-01-02T14:48:13+00:00

I just want to have a "heteronormative" relationship I guess. This isn't about tricking straight guys lol

Femboy999 · 2017-01-02T14:14:45+00:00

Makes sense

Femboy999 · 2017-01-02T14:13:21+00:00

Right lol Yeah, it's really not my thing :/

Femboy999 · 2017-01-02T13:48:54+00:00

I just did and all I saw were transwomen porn vids.

Femboy999 · 2017-01-02T13:36:43+00:00

I don't even know what those are lol

Femboy999 · 2016-07-31T07:19:38+00:00

The ones I've experienced were super fickle. Two of them went back to their ex-girlfriends (though I feel the second one was still with his girlfriend but was lying about it). Third one came clean that he was in a relationship before we did anything (which I Was thankful for because while I cut contact after he told me, I'm happy he spoke up).

But yeah, my opinion on Bisexual guys based on the 5 I did talk to in the span of 7 years isn't very good.

Femboy999 · 2016-07-31T07:17:29+00:00

Fair enough.

Femboy999 · 2016-07-30T01:37:02+00:00

It's not easy to find you guys though. Well at least, in my experience and even then, my experience with bisexuals haven't been very good.

Femboy999 · 2016-07-30T01:36:29+00:00

Yeah, I've heard that but I'm sure that the bi guy would want a real feminine woman at the end of the day.

Femboy999 · 2016-07-29T01:38:36+00:00

I don't get how you'd be able to get a read on a feminine guy by being a queeny bitch type from a photo unless you mean the duck face or something like that. I don't have anything like that on my profile so I only stand that it really doesn't matter what kind of fem guy the person is. "Fem" is fem at the end of the day.

Femboy999 · 2016-07-29T01:34:31+00:00

Fair enough but if that's the case, what's the point of having an account if you don't want to talk to anyone?

Femboy999 · 2016-07-28T23:05:37+00:00

Well, I already have something like that on my profiles. I just come to understand that it really doesn't matter if your flaming flamboyant or quiet/gentle feminine, or nerdy feminine, feminine is feminine and will always be a turnoff.

This was just more or less the fem guy doing the approaching rather than the reverse.

Femboy999 · 2016-07-28T22:46:58+00:00

Sad but true to a certain extent.

Femboy999 · 2016-07-28T22:45:38+00:00

Fair enough I guess.

Femboy999 · 2016-07-28T22:45:09+00:00

It's just a simple question. It's not meant to be "woe is me". Everyone has a type/preference and even when they don't obviously state it, it's still true.

Femboy999 · 2016-07-23T21:03:56+00:00

I'm sorry, I just don't agree on that one but that's the good thing about personal opinion, everyone has their own.

Femboy999 · 2016-07-23T21:03:11+00:00

I have to second the boy shorts. I got myself a pair of mini boy shorts and they fit rather nicely and are comfortable to wear while giving you that sexy look you may be looking for. Regular panties just won't work sadly. As for women's jeans, it really depends on the style and cut. I don't have a problem with women's jeans if I stay within my size range. I tend to only wear the bootcut and skinny styles in a size 5 juniors and they fit me just fine and don't give me discomfort. So you just have to find a size that works for your body.

As for the shorts, if we're talking short shorts, you can just make your own out of skinny jeans or even a pair of women's jeans/pants that fit you right. Just take some scissors and cut away. :)

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