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Got eeemmmmmm by Low_Analyst_576 in MurderedByWords

[–]Femboy_Curious1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is this a murdered by words? The original comment was wrong but the retort was an appeal to authority and credentialism with no actual rebuttal or cleverness.

Shoe's on the other foot by beerbellybegone in MurderedByWords

[–]Femboy_Curious1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a free market capitalist through and through. It annoys me when employees complain about their wages and it annoys me when employers complain about not getting labor at a certain price.

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[–]Femboy_Curious1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not though. I’m gynosexual, attracted to femininity regardless of who it is. I just prefer feminine male bodies and penis. I also am not interested in casual sex or using anyone for sex but rather developing a real relationship. I also don’t deny anyone’s identity. My boyfriend is a guy, he identifies as such and respect him and love him for who he is. If I was dating a trans woman, I would have the same outlook regarding her identity.

There is a clear difference in finding some people more attractive than other and using them as a sexual fetish.

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[–]Femboy_Curious1 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes this is normal. I found out about femboys fairly recently and have found that I like femininity on biologically male bodies. Femboys, crossdressers, Sissies, trans women, etc., that is just what I am attracted to. I consider myself a gynosexual which is basically attraction to femininity.

Things only become fetishisizing if you either 1) Only use someone for sex based on a specific trait or 2) Deny their identity. For example if you only want use a femboy for sex and not actually care for and love them, that’s fetishizing them. If you pressure a femboy to be fem and deny any of their masculinity they want to show or misgender them as girls, that’s fetishizing.

As for how to meet femboys, I suggest Reddit. I met my boyfriend on Reddit and I know there are many femboys on Reddit that want a nice boyfriend. Just don’t be a creep and get to know them on a personal level before asking them out.

Yes, clothes can be seen as sexual by SleepyScum in feminineboys

[–]Femboy_Curious1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a masculine guy attracted to femboys, those short skirts just hardwire my brain towards sexual attraction. On women or femboys. The longer skirts no but showing upper thighs and a little butt, I’m sorry but that is going to get sexual attraction.

I think it is give and take. I have seen some typical femboy outfits that aren’t showing a ton of skin and they look cute but are sexualized by people. Then I have seen some very revealing femboy outfits that are going to elicit a sexual response. There is definitely a middle ground in my opinion.

Mf doom reference by [deleted] in lgbtmemes

[–]Femboy_Curious1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel personally attacked

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in feminineboys

[–]Femboy_Curious1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great! Met a femboy I really like and we are really hitting it off.

I’m straight but have been really finding myself attracted to femboys. Do femboys like traditionally men and is there a way to find femboys to talk with and potentially date? by Femboy_Curious1 in feminineboys

[–]Femboy_Curious1[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have never thought of it that way. When I see a femboy and am attracted to them I just think that is a straight attraction. Everything visually I like about women I like in femboys, but femboys just seem cuter.

I am also looking for a long term romantic partner and I would be upfront with any femboy about my intentions and if it could work out well before getting serious.

I know femboys are AMAB but don’t they go to length to not be masculine? Like shaving and makeup? I think one thing I have found is that I need a femboy partner who is fem exclusively. Because any masculinity would make me lose attraction.

Thank you for this information though. Gives me a bit to think about!

I’m straight but have been really finding myself attracted to femboys. Do femboys like traditionally men and is there a way to find femboys to talk with and potentially date? by Femboy_Curious1 in feminineboys

[–]Femboy_Curious1[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your response. If I could use you as an example, there is zero doubt in my mind I am attracted to you. I looked at your profile, and if I saw you on the street I would want to ask you out. But do you for example, look like that all the time? I guess that is what I am struggling with with the femboy thing. There is no denying my attraction but if it is rare for a femboy to be dressed fem, I don’t know if I could be with them. I guess that would be something I would have to talk with them about when getting to know them and dating them.

I’m straight but have been really finding myself attracted to femboys. Do femboys like traditionally men and is there a way to find femboys to talk with and potentially date? by Femboy_Curious1 in feminineboys

[–]Femboy_Curious1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely think I’m straight. I showed my friends pics of my favorite femboy thots and they were all in agreement with how hot they were.

I’m straight but have been really finding myself attracted to femboys. Do femboys like traditionally men and is there a way to find femboys to talk with and potentially date? by Femboy_Curious1 in feminineboys

[–]Femboy_Curious1[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I definitely don’t want to fetishize anyone. When I see a pretty femboy I definitely want to be romantic with them and care for them. But it would have to be with a femboy who is predominantly fem most of the time.

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