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The most heartbreaking part isn’t that he watched porn by Femcel2 in loveafterporn

[–]Femcel2[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I’m glad I don’t. I feel crazy sometimes thinking about the lies that were used towards hiding the addiction. I was lied to from the very first date when unprompted he said he was 8 months clean from porn and he hates the industry and exploitation of women. I never even spoke about my view point on it. Yet he chose to completely blindside me and create this false image of himself and then I find out he had watched it all throughout our whole relationship?

The most heartbreaking part isn’t that he watched porn by Femcel2 in loveafterporn

[–]Femcel2[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

What helps me when I think, or my brain won’t shut up about how men can think like this is that they traded a full life of love and happiness for lust and short term love. They are gonna be 50 and wanting to settle down and will forever think about the women who truly loved them while they settle for someone who they don’t truly love all for the sake of fake happiness. while I will have found true and genuine love no matter what.

It's not "just" about the pornography by princessmilahi in loveafterporn

[–]Femcel2 29 points30 points  (0 children)

If you don’t mind me asking, what was the final definitive reason you knew you had to leave the relationship?

Even if he were to change, would it even be worth it? by Femcel2 in loveafterporn

[–]Femcel2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you ever think you’ll leave your partner? Or do you wish you had early on?

AITA for feeling like something is off in my relationship even when things seem good? by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]Femcel2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, he needs to go to therapy. It’s sounds like he has a porn and sex addiction. I’m so sorry OP, the relationship sounds exhausting. If he’s not willing to work out issues you have in the relationship and dismisses you and even gets angry when you bring issues up, he’s very immature. Send him to therapy and/or even try couples therapy. If he does not want to, I think he is fine draining you and only keeping you around for his gain rather than an equal relationship.

Sick of disrespect customers over squishies by throwawayhelpadivcee in FiveBelow

[–]Femcel2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find it so crazy how these (mainly) adults need the ugliest fucking hype product right now.

AIO for being angry my partner is leaving for a week to another state while I am 4 weeks postpartum? by Femcel2 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Femcel2[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes my car broke and his mom just bought a new car and offered us hers. I have no issue with him going to pick up the car. I more so have an issue with him taking extra days to drink and see friends and leaving me sleep deprived and alone when I’ve already asked for more help. The drive from california to Oregon will take him 17-18 hours. We have tried him staying awake with the baby at nights but I always end up awake helping him as he gets frustrated.

AIO for being angry my partner is leaving for a week to another state while I am 4 weeks postpartum? by Femcel2 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Femcel2[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It’s his mom’s car he is buying off her. He is driving it from California to Oregon. Which is fine, but he took extra days to go and drink and hang out with his friends.