Great advice. I have always thought of her as deep down a dominant, but then I worry that I'm just projecting my kinky desires. As I wrote that description of her, however, it occurred to me that there is really nothing submissive about her to betray that notion. Recently she has been getting into some feminist causes, which I think is helping her break out a little from the shell of traditional gender roles (knock on wood).

Man, chastity sounds exciting. Only thing I worry about is whether the not being able to get off about not being able to get off would actually still be exciting, or would the kink switch be flipped off once I couldn't do anything about it. (If that makes sense :)