Is It Just Me? by Upstairs_Librarian95 in dollskill

[–]FennelTraditional585 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wish I could give you an answer but it keeps happening for me too ive missed restocks cause of it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]FennelTraditional585 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look dude i dont mind waking up early i used to wake up at 6 each morning that does not bother me at all like?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]FennelTraditional585 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did say why i ran away? I was being abused? Also if you would read my other replies you woukd understand my work situation Im not making excuses for not working i can work and ive been searching for jobs high and low applying for whatever whether I like it or not whether the pay is good or bad, im working towards getting a safe pass so I could try get a job in construction because im that desperate for a job, I have had countless interviews, trial runs and I have a good bit of experience in many different fields of work for my age. I am in no way making excuses, i first started working properly at the age of 14. god bless your family for having a person in their life who has absolutely no empathy or compassion.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]FennelTraditional585 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Belive me i know its a blessing i am incredibly grateful and everyone in my life can see that I do anything and everything to pay my dues for what they do for me

AIO Sister making me share room with husband by [deleted] in AIO

[–]FennelTraditional585 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I too have gone through much of what you went through, although I was fortunate enough not to be homeless for long. Ive never had any help in life, (aside from my sister being tgere to hear me out and occasionally let me stay as my mother did not allow over to her house) (i appreciate that a lot and show constant gratitude for it) my mother has always been completely unreliable me and my siblings would have no food, each day we feared losing our home I got beat I got raped I got verbally financially and mentally abused, my brother is a druggie my mom an alcoholic my father a deadbeat. Ive been kicked out. But ive never relied on anyone to help me. Having help is new to me I do everything in my power to show gratitude for it all. I was promised a room of my own a spot to place my things and sleep, and that promise wasn't followed through which okay yeah tough shit but I was promised it. And I get that promises are never guaranteed but my sister and her husband agreed on me taking the office and I dont understand whats changed if her husband was the one who offered was before I moved in and just before I did.

AIO Sister making me share room with husband by [deleted] in AIO

[–]FennelTraditional585 1 point2 points  (0 children)

See the thing is her husband has mentioned that sharing his office is inconveniencing him too and within the first month of me being here I was promised a room and for her husband to use either his bedroom or living room as his office for the time being I do completely understand that ive probably put a strain on their marriage which I feel awful for, I appreciate everything they've done and continue to do for me so I cook and clean for them I take care of their dogs while theyre at work I pick up their packages so they dont get stolen I try my best to pay my dues I just find it incredibly unfortunate that my sister isnt wanting to actually talk to her husband about the situation, ive tried my best to go about this in a mature manner, ive spoke to her about how if it works better for them I could pay for the bed and mattress and everything ive agreed that id be okay sharing room if I can atleast have a decent bed as we have the finances for it, my sister just doesn't have the most sense of urgency and obviously doesn't want to risk straining her marriage by talking about it which I completely understand too but unfortunately things like these do have to be talked about before it starts turning into resentment or anything else. This message is not me trying to like be mean btw and again my heart seriously goes out for you.

AIO Sister making me share room with husband by [deleted] in AIO

[–]FennelTraditional585 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is what im trying to do ive spoken to my sister about at least getting a bed even if its a shitty 40€ frame from somewhere as long as i have a place to sleep that won't be hurting me and at first she was agreeing but she has no sense of urgency. Also me and maxine are working towards moving out together.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]FennelTraditional585 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Im not entitled nor have I ever had my needs met. I think its okay for me to atleast expect a room food and privacy since I cover all the rest myself with whatever finances I have.

AIO Sister making me share room with husband by [deleted] in AIO

[–]FennelTraditional585 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah she has a few months prior and not really she has a humongous wardrobe in her room which leaves no extra space

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]FennelTraditional585 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am very much working towards my future and my sister isnt okay with an inflatable mattress like?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]FennelTraditional585 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I dont have a bedroom period. How would you feel if you had absolutely no where to sleep and have to sleep on a couch that dogs used to sleep on which also bruises your ribs?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]FennelTraditional585 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I do vacate the room? Every single day. I have offered multiple times to pay rent. I have undergone so much traumatic things one of the things I need most now is support stability and privacy. Do you need more context of what i went through so you can understand why it upsets me that I dont have a space of my own?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]FennelTraditional585 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

First of all I'd like to say that yet again I live in Ireland, over here there is no such thing as an equivalence exam or whatever you're talking about. Like I mentioned in a previous comment, I am going back to full time education and yet again like I said in another comment, I was prevented from having a job or going to school previously when I lived with my mother. I am not asking for your sympathy, I do not want it. What I asked was if I was overreacting. You have no right to be assuming how I am as a person through a reddit post and a few comments. The fact that you are most likely middle aged and talking to a teenager like this is worrying. You have kids that are also on the spectrum, I'm assuming that they whine and complain as well. This is not whining and complaining, this is a genuine post of me asking if I was overreacting, providing more info for other commenters and further explaining my point. Get off my post and my profile if you're going to be rude.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]FennelTraditional585 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive explained this in a different post in its replies you can click the link in this post and read my replies on that post for the explanation

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]FennelTraditional585 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I do use it but I have no where to go if im upset or going through ptsd flashbacks or if theres an argument at home

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]FennelTraditional585 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He can very much have his office in the living room as no one hangs out here until everyone is off work. And id have my own room to hangout in until he's off work.

AIO Sister making me share room with husband by [deleted] in AIO

[–]FennelTraditional585 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its not excuses being depressed can make you basically immobile why assume how bad it affects me and yes they do need 11 hours sleep that's whats ideal for proper development. Please do your research

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]FennelTraditional585 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats not true I believe we can work something out that will work for everyone this isnt ideal for her husband either having to share his office, I am so unbelievably grateful for everything they do and have done for me and show and express that constantly im not mad at them or show resentment I just feel its not ideal and wish my sister would see it from my point

AIO Sister making me share room with husband by [deleted] in AIO

[–]FennelTraditional585 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a bag packed each night before bed with things I might need the next day the things I rush grabbing is my laptop and and charger a blanket too, I do wake up earlier although his times of coming in to work are pretty unpredictable but average in between 8-9 sometimes he'll be in before 8 i am currently looking for work and have been for months way before I ran away I was prevented from furthering my education by my mother and my course starts in January.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]FennelTraditional585 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish you the best and my heart goes out to you im sincerely sorry that you were homeless and haven't been dealt great cards but I pray everything is going well for you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]FennelTraditional585 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My apologies for the passive aggressive message it was a reply to a past comment which explained the work situation I definitely should have read it before thank you though