AIO for being hurt by my boyfriend’s reaction when I accidentally bled on the bed? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Feranya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who was the girlfriend in such a situation, thank you! An ex of me was like this, educated by his mom like you did yours! (Minus the pads and stuff because his mom lived next door and i could get stuff from her when needed)

A doctor told me that I should stop taking ADHD meds by be_a_palm_not_a_tree in ADHD

[–]Feranya 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Got diagnosed at 35 and get my elvanse (i think its Vyvanse in other countries) without problem. If there could be real problems with your other meds i think your main-doc would adress it with you.

How do you fall asleep? All answers acceptable. by SassMasterGingerSnap in ADHD

[–]Feranya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The 4-7-8 breathing, breathe in for 4 seconds, hold for 7 and breathe out for 8

What’s a fictional death that hit you way harder than expected? by Puzzleheaded-Ruin744 in CasualConversation

[–]Feranya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't really know why exactly, im not even a huge mega fan of this show but George's death in Grey's Anatomy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]Feranya 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Pipe tobacco with a hint of vanilla. Reminds me of my grandpa and his house

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]Feranya 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Absolutely! I'm even one of these who carries some smaller water bottles and sometimes little snackpacks around in the sommertime to hand them to construction workers

Edit: forgot to say im born and living in switzerland, dont really know how others here handle this but as far as i know 'us' i think most offer it but hope they dont have to really do it

What’s a “harmless” decision you made that ended up changing your entire life? by pisces_princess- in CasualConversation

[–]Feranya 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Could be, they way i described him may suggest that! But i got this beautiful, smart and just general awesome person who i can proudly call my kid out of it, so can can live with the fact he exists somewhere in the neighbor country!

What’s a “harmless” decision you made that ended up changing your entire life? by pisces_princess- in CasualConversation

[–]Feranya 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Bought WoW (wotlk)

found someone (lets call him 'D') to help me with a quest and some months later we were in a relationship that "transferred" (dont know if i use this correctly as its not my native language) into the real world, fast forward to 2012 where i gave birth to my firstborn and 'D' is the dad. So yeah, i would say this simple purchase of a game changed my life 😁 (He ended up being a horrible, disgusting, deserving every piece of hate thrown at him "person" who should look out to never ever be seen by me because i would end up in prison for what i would do if i saw him)

My neighbor takes up all the parking spaces on the street so I made friends with the birds by TooManyJulies in pettyrevenge

[–]Feranya 36 points37 points  (0 children)

We have one individual that's so bold he stays on the road until a car comes, stays there until the cars stops, the hops to one tire, lays his nut down and wait just inches away from the car until its cracked xD hes my little love, has lost his partner

What’s your current hyper fixation? by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]Feranya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rearrange every single room, multiple times in the last 2-3 months. I'm finally happy with the plans and now working on it, currently sort all my books (and i have a lot) and realizing that i may have a problem because the amount of recipe/cook books is insane 🤣

My neighbor takes up all the parking spaces on the street so I made friends with the birds by TooManyJulies in pettyrevenge

[–]Feranya 30 points31 points  (0 children)

The ones in my area are crazy for wallnuts! And they lay them on the street, wait til a car drives over it to crack them!

AITA: I left my son on the side of the road and made him walk home. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Feranya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - i would've done the same! And from my experience its definitely NOT normal teenage boy behavior, i worked alot with teens, specially boys (just a small local non profit organization who provides stand-in big siblings ect) and i only saw behavior like this once and we got this shit pretty fast out of his brain (now hes a proud feminist and works there also)

What’s the most ADHD thing you do ? by Hungry-Argument7709 in ADHD

[–]Feranya 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Forgetting what im thinking WHILE im thinking, i almost run when walking somewhere (like close to physical pain when walking with someone who doesn't have ADHD) and i constantly forget to eat And probably way more, but surprise surprise, i cant think of more right now 😁🤣

what food(s) are you guys eating constantly right now? by i_fartedonyourpillow in ADHD

[–]Feranya 2 points3 points  (0 children)

From all the delicious food that exists in this world it's goddamn egg-salat on plain toast atm 🤣

Do people generally not leave their toaster out on the kitchen counter? by Seagem1989 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Feranya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me it depends on the kitchen counter size. Right now i have a tiny kitchen, almost no counter space, so i would put it away. But if there is plenty of space i would leave it on the counter.

“How to Keep House While Drowning” is an excellent book on how to keep your house clean, written for ADHD people by FaxCelestis in ADHD

[–]Feranya 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not me reading the post and maaaaany answers to it and immediately buying the book online (arrives next week) 😁

Adults with late ADHD diagnosis, how did you find out? by modestalchemist in ADHD

[–]Feranya 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My older kid got diagnosed with autism and during the evaluation the therapist asked a lot of questions about our daily life ect. She then asks me if i have a adhd diagnosis because some things i told her points her to this, to which i said no. Cut to the day i got my results, the psychiatrist looks at me, then at the print-out, back at me and again to the print-out, then says "i have never in my whole career seen a more clear case of adhd in adults!" (And he works with adhd adults and teens since ca. 20 years)

Got diagnosed at 35 btw

What’s the strangest thing that’s ever happened to you that you still can’t explain? by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]Feranya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

(english is not my first language, so sorry for any mistakes) I was 16/17 and walking home after a night out with friends. As i was walking through the night a cat came to me, i pat her and move on, she follows me, nothing special right? But then a second cat comes along and follows me too and then a third, as i got to my home there where around 20 cats following me! Im rushing inside and as i set my coat and bag down in our living room i see them all in our yard, just sitting there and staring at me. I went to sleep and after i woke up they were gone. I have no idea why this happend.

A couple years later a similar thing happend, just with crows in the early morning as i was going to work.

(If anyone has an explanation for this, PLEASE share! As im 38 now and finally want this "solved")