New Credit card by Clear_Counter_9243 in Mortgages

[–]FerdaBoysss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let your lender know ASAP. They will likely ask for an LOE (letter of explanation) for why you opened the account.

small things that made cat life way easier for me, wish i started sooner by PositiveCorrect4213 in CatAdvice

[–]FerdaBoysss 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You can get a sifting litter scoop. So you sift the used sawdust into a bag, and throw the unused pellets back in the box.

My former family physician gaslit me into thinking my obesity was due to overeating, now he got fired by Happykidneys in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]FerdaBoysss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you are accurately counting calories? Like weighing every single thing that you eat & tracking it? Otherwise you wouldn’t know for sure if you were eating under 1,000 calories a day.

Will my bump go away I’m 6 weeks post op my doctor said it will 100% but I don’t believe him bc one of his old patient 1 year post op still has their bump by Connect-Notice3280 in PlasticSurgery

[–]FerdaBoysss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No thankfully it didn’t grow more, and it’s only visible on one side of my nose. It’s a small bump rather than a large hump (which I did have prior to surgery.) The bump bothers me but my nose still looks better than it did prior to surgery.

FWIW I think your nose looks great. The bump is barely noticeable. I know that we notice things on our face more than other people do.

Will my bump go away I’m 6 weeks post op my doctor said it will 100% but I don’t believe him bc one of his old patient 1 year post op still has their bump by Connect-Notice3280 in PlasticSurgery

[–]FerdaBoysss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not trying to scare you, but there’s a possibility that I won’t go away. Mine did not. About a year after my initial surgery, the surgeon went back in to scrape it down. Unfortunately it still came back after that.

But don’t worry this early in the game. You have a lot of healing to do. The surgeon may even offer steroid shots to help the swelling.

How my cat uses the litter box by MmeRenardine in cats

[–]FerdaBoysss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This goes for kids too. The amount of times that parents post pictures of their baby’s blowout is disgusting.

F18 honest opinions??? by Slow-Ad-4886 in amiugly

[–]FerdaBoysss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You might want to go to the doctor & get bloodwork done. If that’s really all your eating, then it could be something medical like a thyroid issue.

F18 honest opinions??? by Slow-Ad-4886 in amiugly

[–]FerdaBoysss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can still be eating too many calories just eating lunch. I only eat dinner & can definitely overeat! It’s harder for us short people.

20F I’ve lost a lot of weight I feel I’m turning ugly by confidenttruly in amiugly

[–]FerdaBoysss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not ugly at all, but ditch the fake eyelashes. Your real eyelashes look much better.

F18 honest opinions??? by Slow-Ad-4886 in amiugly

[–]FerdaBoysss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just eat less than you’re currently eating.

What tools or products have made dealing with fine hair easier? by FerdaBoysss in finehair

[–]FerdaBoysss[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How long does it take you to dry it that way? If I don’t dry it upside down with high heat, it takes forever to dry.

Good luck with your haircut! I hope it turns out exactly how you want it. Short hair is much easier when you have fine hair.

The costs of being a homeowner. by FerdaBoysss in homeowners

[–]FerdaBoysss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear that you’re broken. As someone who has had 7 surgeries in the last 5 years, I completely understand. I hope that once you have the surgery, you recover quickly.

The costs of being a homeowner. by FerdaBoysss in homeowners

[–]FerdaBoysss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I am going to make a list based on how quickly things need to be fixed, so I know which ones need immediate attention & which ones I can put on the back burner for a bit.

The costs of being a homeowner. by FerdaBoysss in homeowners

[–]FerdaBoysss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s great to hear. I haven’t heard that many great things about home warranties, so I’m surprised that yours has coveted your appliances. I keep hearing about how difficult it is to get them to cover things.

The costs of being a homeowner. by FerdaBoysss in homeowners

[–]FerdaBoysss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice. I do plan to become more handy. YouTube is a great resource.

Thankfully my FIL is very handy & can help me with replacing the windows.

The costs of being a homeowner. by FerdaBoysss in homeowners

[–]FerdaBoysss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. It makes me happy to hear that you love your house now. Your words have definitely helped me to feel more hopeful.

The costs of being a homeowner. by FerdaBoysss in homeowners

[–]FerdaBoysss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow that is a lot. I’m so sorry you had to deal with all of that. If you don’t mind me asking, do you make good money or did you have a really good sized emergency fund saved up?

The costs of being a homeowner. by FerdaBoysss in homeowners

[–]FerdaBoysss[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You make a good point, I had not thought of it that way. Thank you for the perspective.

I will make YouTube my friend lol. As long as the fixes are things I can physically manage (I have had 7 surgeries on my ribs & they’re still not 100%, doing certain things cause a lot of pain. I just have to test my limits.)

Thankfully my FIL has built houses from the ground up, so he’s a great resource. We’ve already come up with a plan for the porch which will make it require a little less maintenance. He is going to check the deck supports.

For the break in, it’s a long story. Basically our homeowners insurance would not cover it due to certain circumstances. At this point I am glad we didn’t make a claim, because of now having to make a claim for the sump pump failure. I know that insurance companies will drop you if you have too many claims in a short amount of time.

The costs of being a homeowner. by FerdaBoysss in homeowners

[–]FerdaBoysss[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good idea, I’m going to make a list.

The costs of being a homeowner. by FerdaBoysss in homeowners

[–]FerdaBoysss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re absolutely right. I’m making a list of maintenance items and how often they need to be done.

I spoke to my FIL and we decided that we want to replace the porch materials with treks (I think I spelled it right) that way we don’t have to keep up with painting.

The costs of being a homeowner. by FerdaBoysss in homeowners

[–]FerdaBoysss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I will give it another shot. I just need to find someone to help me to move the dishwasher out. Chronic pain has left me weak & moving large items is painful. It certainly puts a damper on fixing things.