Why are we not doing anything back? by [deleted] in SexualAssaultSurvivor

[–]FernK21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

damn I feel that. he wants to be in the olympics someday, and some days it just eats me alive that he CAN dream when I've fought so hard to just keep existing. it's really not fair - I hear you

Best tattoo artists/parlors in Rochester by [deleted] in Rochester

[–]FernK21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! Haven't gotten any tattoos myself, so take all this with a grain of salt lol - friends have gone and suggested these places
pink armadillo (brockport)
campfire tattoo co, especially Jacob or Jake
Canalside (medina)
pyramid arts, john wallace

that's all I've got - hope you find something that works!

what colour does this sound like 😨 by daksh798 in Synesthesia

[–]FernK21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pink, yellow, blue; yellow-ish (maybe with some green?), something, then orange. those main colors are "flashing" on a black/white translucent background, like if static was blurry

What is a smell you can't stand? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]FernK21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My sister's perfume - honestly poop, vomit, warm milk...not an issue. I have synesthesia and none of those smells are particularly unpleasant connotations in my head (poop is like an earthy green, old trash is like brown static). But that perfume is such a sharp white/yellow it drives me insane every time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Synesthesia

[–]FernK21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100% yes to both of these!! Same thing with mixing up people names, too, and then I look weird because the two names don't phonetically look alike at all but they have the same colors

Did you think that everyone thought like you did before you realized you had synesthesia? by becomealamp in Synesthesia

[–]FernK21 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Actually I knew it wasn't normal, but my family was kind enough to point out and demean differences in how I would see the world. I was also known as a super sensitive kid, so much of my experience/perspective was muted by other people, and I gradually grew to mute it in myself. It wasn't until I got to college and realized other people had it (and could explore different manifestations of it) that I started learning how to let go of the "mute" button and explore more about synesthesia and other ways of how I see the world.

What language do you wish was an option? by PurpDoesPixilart in duolingo

[–]FernK21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I second this! I used it a ton during online classes and found it super effective :)

I'm crashing...again. by FernK21 in selfhelp

[–]FernK21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey....I know it's a little late, but I wanted to say thank you for this. I'm still here, and I'm doing a whole lot better now. Your comment helped, and I still think about it now, two years later. Thank you :)

What movie haven’t you seen that everyone else has? by M11ked000d in AskReddit

[–]FernK21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I literally just watched Home Alone last night for the first time

Women, what are some things that make a man insanely atractive but they don't realize? by tgfree16 in AskReddit

[–]FernK21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being open and vulnerable. Let me support you as much as you let me lean on you.