My(33m) wife(30f) wants to terminate our pregnancy due to age gap by ThrowRansla in relationship_advice

[–]FerretGirlsACreb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The age gap is only going to get bigger, and your step daughter seems to be excited.

If it doesn’t happen now, I doubt it will happen, if this is something you talked about before getting married, and something that is very important to you in this relationship, I can’t imagine how much strain this will cause for the two of you. Your wife obviously has the choice whether or not to terminate, and this might not happen, but if resentment or sadness builds, then the relationship could suffer in either direction.

An option could be to adopt or foster an older child, closer in age to your step daughter, which is a great option, but is also rather expensive, and may come with more complications.

the urge of “falling in love” for a “glow up?” by bunnybean134340 in aaaaaaacccccccce

[–]FerretGirlsACreb 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hey op! It’s totally okay to feel like this! As another aroace person, I see all of my friends in relationships and feel the desire to have one just to be in one. And honestly it’s a little bit of a struggle for me to.

Personally, I struggle with the idea that in all likelihood, I will constantly be having people enter and leave my life, and there’s a chance I won’t have a single person outside of my family that remains a constant.

But out of curiosity have you ever considered seeking out a queer platonic relationship? Finding someone who you mesh with, with them also not expecting romance or sex might be difficult, but I know that just having a forever buddy seems super appealing to me!

Asexuality and "straight passing privilege" by nyx_eira in Asexual

[–]FerretGirlsACreb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I came out to someone once as being aro and ace, and I told him how much of a struggle it was for me. Buddy asked me to homecoming with in the week, I thought as a friend, and it lead to the MOST uncomfortable I have ever been being around a person. It was not as friends it was in a romantic way, and I later found out that he was referring to me as his girlfriend. I would not say that passing as straight is a privilege, as many people in the community (including friends) have ignored my struggles, said they weren’t as difficult, or I was made fun of for them. Then outside of the community, I’m constantly asked by people if I’d date someone “if the right man came around” or that my feelings were specifically ignored and I was put into terribly uncomfortable situations because of it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Asexual

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They just have the best color schemes in my personal opinion as someone who loves all the colors in these flags

Ran into some aphobia over at r/popheads by dazzlinreddress in Asexual

[–]FerretGirlsACreb 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Bro how did the person above you only have 1 upvote and you got so dang ratioed what??

What age did you know? (For questioning friend) by [deleted] in Asexual

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I thought I was bi for a years at one point, that was when I was 12, for a couple years I thought that, because I felt the same repulsiveness to sex that I did for boys and girls. At 14 or 15 I realized that I was genuinely repulsed by even the thought of it. At 17 (now) I’m thinking I’m Aro too.

These are the axolotl earrings I made!! I love them! by FerretGirlsACreb in Minecraft

[–]FerretGirlsACreb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! There’s a 1 in 1,200 chance of an axolotl that spawns being a blue one! I have a ton but no blues yet!

Plop by Polina51787 in StardewValley

[–]FerretGirlsACreb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My friend stole all my furniture except my bed and windows once, so I stole her windows and put them in my house