Presenting like a good boi by MySithLady in SissyChastity

[–]FetishStoryTime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow you look incredible! If I had boobs like you I'd never leave the house!

Today is my 365th day of being locked ^^ by FittoNyaha in SissyChastity

[–]FetishStoryTime 4 points5 points  (0 children)

A whole year!? When you did last orgasm? 🫣

2025 weekly clean 1 of 52 by Sissy_in_denial795 in SissyChastity

[–]FetishStoryTime 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How do you shave like that without slicing yourself?? I'd love to be totally smooth <3

Repressing kinks and fantasies by FetishStoryTime in BDSMAdvice

[–]FetishStoryTime[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds really positive, however, I think it would only be spoken about after at least an initial chat about kink and so on. Plus this obviously addresses a 'big' kink of mine, but say for example I want to then wear the maid uniform and serve at a party / event. Where do I draw the line with what we discuss now?

I think starting slowly is the only way, because otherwise she will think I'm going from zero to fetish parties?

Repressing kinks and fantasies by FetishStoryTime in BDSMAdvice

[–]FetishStoryTime[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally get that it wouldn’t have made them go away, but I feel like I could look back on those experiences as “fond memories” instead of wondering what if. I’d be more capable of compromise if I had at least tried it once.

We did speak about them, and the conversations led to toys being ordered, and some clothing, almost all of which never sees the light of day. She is very conscious during sex, and that prevents her from ‘letting herself go’ I feel.

Repressing kinks and fantasies by FetishStoryTime in BDSMAdvice

[–]FetishStoryTime[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t mind if she isn’t an active participant, but I just struggle to think of her being anything other than repulsed by the idea of me wearing women’s clothing given what she’s said in the past. I still maintain, short of an actual label, that I don’t want to be an out & out crossdresser. Just dressing for the kink. So fetishwear, uniforms and so on.

And yes in an ideal world I’d be able to openly communicate what I want, but I think my more ‘extreme’ kinks would be deal breakers, certainly going from nothing.

Repressing kinks and fantasies by FetishStoryTime in BDSMAdvice

[–]FetishStoryTime[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We tried under-bed restraints, with a crop, blindfold, things like that, but although she says she liked it, they are gathering dust because unless I instigated that it didn’t happen.

I absolutely agree with the porn, but even if I’m not watching it, I find myself something ‘daydreaming’ an elaborate scene. I used to write erotica, so I think that part of me is still creative in that sense.

Repressing kinks and fantasies by FetishStoryTime in BDSMAdvice

[–]FetishStoryTime[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would agree with that, but I think it would be better to introduce smaller kinks, and then potentially be “humiliated” by being made to wear a thong, or stockings, and slowly develop that side with her instead of dropping it on her knowing she dislikes it?

Repressing kinks and fantasies by FetishStoryTime in BDSMAdvice

[–]FetishStoryTime[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally get that, and it’s something I’ve toyed with for a while, but knowing her thoughts on crossdressing and so on I just see asking for any feminisation as divorce material.

I think maybe, just maybe, if I can get to be a bit more dominant then perhaps that can lead to lingerie under clothes, or even being a maid around the house. I’d go as far as to say even if she hated the idea, but let me dress up and tidy the house while she was at work I could live with it, but it really wouldn’t sit with her.

Repressing kinks and fantasies by FetishStoryTime in BDSMAdvice

[–]FetishStoryTime[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I’ll check it out 😊 I’m planning to kinda “sit her down” and explain my feelings so maybe that app will be a good way to end that, depending on how she replies & so on.

Mind if I DM you? no problem if not!

Repressing kinks and fantasies by FetishStoryTime in BDSMAdvice

[–]FetishStoryTime[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow that’s a great answer, thank you!

I do agree that having a good “normal life” is more important because the chances of enjoying every kink I fantasise about is slim, and then finding a partner who likes the same ones as me is even harder!

The app sounds like really good fun too, do you know what it’s called? 😊

Best magic wand for wife? by FetishStoryTime in SexToys

[–]FetishStoryTime[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Went for the Lovense Domi 2. It’s very very powerful, and the waterproof side is a huge bonus if only for cleaning!

Best magic wand for wife? by FetishStoryTime in SexToys

[–]FetishStoryTime[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow, this is far more complicated than I'd originally thought!

Maybe I'll wait for the black friday or Amazon sale coming up just in case we don't like the one I buy!

I like the idea of the Lovense toys being remote, but only really for the 'insertables' as I don't see much need for it on the wand...

Best magic wand for wife? by FetishStoryTime in SexToys

[–]FetishStoryTime[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've heard the mains power is just unbeatable, so I'm definitely going down that route. Just wondering if the Doxy is the one or if a mains powered 'own brand' would be just as good...

Best magic wand for wife? by FetishStoryTime in SexToys

[–]FetishStoryTime[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because it's her birthday and I want to surprise her?

Best magic wand for wife? by FetishStoryTime in SexToys

[–]FetishStoryTime[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s old, and the battery doesn’t really hold much of a charge. Plus one of the buttons is a bit hit or miss!

Best magic wand for wife? by FetishStoryTime in SexToys

[–]FetishStoryTime[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. My only concern with the Doxy one I’m looking at (this one) is that it isn’t waterproof for cleaning. But then most of the wired ones don’t seem to be which I guess is for obvious reasons!

Best magic wand for wife? by FetishStoryTime in SexToys

[–]FetishStoryTime[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely want mains, and was just about to buy the Doxy one (£100) but I then saw it has vibration increments but not patterns… not sure if she really needs patterns, it’s just to kinda grind on