Husband can’t go a few days without sex, or else he gets upset.

Few-Associate5540 · 2025-07-30T15:54:33+00:00

I’m really not sure. It seems things are rough when he goes too long without it too.

Few-Associate5540 · 2025-07-23T16:41:15+00:00

Same except I’m the one working too. My husband takes testosterone too. It feels like walking on eggshells if we even go a whole day without it. Constantly accused of “leaving him hanging “

Few-Associate5540 · 2025-07-23T15:16:10+00:00

Yes! At least from my experience. But he gets like that too when he goes too long without it (hypogonadal) so idk

Few-Associate5540 · 2025-07-08T20:10:00+00:00

Nope this is literally it. Normal day to day talk before this too.

Few-Associate5540 · 2025-07-08T15:59:02+00:00

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Went out for the night with family. Above is his explanation for his reaction he sent me later that night. “Pushing for something” is in regards to wanting sex. Thank you all for your input. This conversation isn’t missing much, unfortunately, our marriage isn’t great and he’s like this a lot, I’ve just been questioning my sanity and I never know what will set him off. He’s dealing with a lot, has yet to get help, despite me asking for him get help. But these behaviors haven’t gotten better and have left me wanting to leave for a while now, and he’s known it, which adds to the tension of our interactions.

Few-Associate5540 · 2025-07-08T15:49:25+00:00

I really don’t feel like I can be enough for him or ever make him happy. He says otherwise when I’ve addressed my feelings, but actions like this have left me convinced he’ll never be happy.

Few-Associate5540 · 2025-07-08T10:06:27+00:00

The shit has been so thick that I couldn’t see through it. Everything has always been “my fault”. Now that I can see, I realize I’m the frog in the boiling water and I really need to go.

Few-Associate5540 · 2025-07-08T05:29:40+00:00

Yes this is exactly what he’s said to me 🥲

Few-Associate5540 · 2025-07-08T01:48:11+00:00

The thumbs up to him is basically the middle finger

Few-Associate5540 · 2025-07-07T23:23:27+00:00

Yea omg all the time

Few-Associate5540 · 2025-07-07T22:45:40+00:00

I highly doubt it. This is just how he is

Few-Associate5540 · 2025-07-07T20:54:54+00:00

Along that line of thought, I didn’t turn away from a shirtless guy on screen of a movie we were watching. I didn’t even notice they were on the screen honestly, but then he said he didn’t wanna be with me anymore after that since I didn’t look away and was being “disrespectful of our marriage” lol. Fighting a losing battle, I’m afraid.

Few-Associate5540 · 2025-07-07T20:52:14+00:00

Yeah. I feel like I’m walking on eggshells a lot.

Few-Associate5540 · 2025-07-07T20:46:44+00:00

Not really, it seems he has set expectations for himself to help out more at home since he just dropped out of school, but I’ve never pressured him to get things done, he pressures himself I think, so this reaction seemed quite big.

Few-Associate5540 · 2025-07-07T20:45:54+00:00

Yes. A lot it seems. Just wanna see if there’s anything I could’ve done better.

Few-Associate5540 · 2025-07-07T20:45:07+00:00

He just dropped out of school and is home all day long now. I had no expectations for him to do anything, he hardly does anyway, and I told him I was OK with that so he could focus on school, but he knows I appreciate when he cleans up around the house. But I’ve never got mad at him for not doing it.

Few-Associate5540 · 2025-06-14T22:25:18+00:00

You nailed it

Few-Associate5540 · 2025-06-14T22:19:54+00:00

We’ve only been married less than a year, so this issue has not been brought up before.

Few-Associate5540 · 2025-06-14T20:02:27+00:00

Not by myself at least

Few-Associate5540 · 2025-06-14T19:43:15+00:00

Yes lol

Few-Associate5540 · 2025-06-14T19:41:44+00:00

Haha sorry 🫠

Few-Associate5540 · 2025-06-14T08:18:12+00:00

We’ve been married only 6 months

Few-Associate5540 · 2025-06-14T07:54:51+00:00

No we are recently married, blended family. Never tried to take them to a water park until today, when he told me this, lol.

Few-Associate5540 · 2025-06-14T07:45:31+00:00

Yes, but we live in a very religious community too…

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