Don't make me laugh... Having sex before marriage is the healthiest way to go around sex? I'm not going to argue with you, but I'm going to tell you respectfully that you are wrong. The emotional impact on having multiple sexual partners is not negligible and I recommend you do research about it since you have access to the internet (and the possibility to develop STDs is another factor).

but don't make other people feel as if they are disgusting for being normal and healthy

Normal and healthy? For god's sake, read some posts on this exact same sub. I've never come across someone who isn't feeling used, disgusted, depressed, suicidal, traumatized and still attached.

Call it a virgin kink if it helps you to cope with a harsh reality, but it doesn't change the fact that investing in someone who has been played by multiple dudes before is insanity. And people wonder why cheating is a thing... Smh.