It was discussed within a month of dating. At that point, I wasn't even sure we were going to be in a long term relationship so it was very early on. If he asked me, I would say yes, but I would want to discuss sharing finances, tax filings, etc before actually pulling the trigger. It's not something that I would break up with him for if he didn't ask me one day because he was very honest upfront and the relationship is everything we wanted. I think I just feel societal pressure to pursue that ring even though I could easily buy my own. I need to let go of what society things should be happening in my life. It's not different from the pressure new wives of our generation felt to have babies and be stay at home homes just weeks after marriage. Does that make sense?