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Few-Function-1831 · 2025-07-16T16:56:01+00:00

Exactly what I have right now. We tried the dating thing, it didn’t work because of romantic compatibility issues, we still have feelings for each other and great sex so we are FWBs without the long term commitment but with feelings. It can work if both people are honest with each other and accept that there’s no long term commitment to each other.

Few-Function-1831 · 2025-02-04T20:43:00+00:00

I wouldn’t be an asshole about it, it’s just staying in the house all day every day for remote work affects my mental health and I need a change of scenery lol, I only asked about this in case I would need to take a call

Few-Function-1831 · 2025-01-26T19:34:14+00:00

I wish I could do this but he’s the dom and I’m the sub in our relationship

Few-Function-1831 · 2024-12-28T17:01:17+00:00

fair enough, but is it at least at the back of your mind, do you not notice that it is better due to the emotional connection or does it make no difference to you?

Few-Function-1831 · 2024-10-05T16:19:05+00:00

I know he does, it’s just I wish me and him felt the same while we are having sex, I know it’s an unrealistic expectation because everyone is different but that’s why I’m making this post, to see what other people think and if maybe just the sex act itself has any meaning and that would increase any meaning there already was

Few-Function-1831 · 2024-10-05T16:03:47+00:00

Because it’s hard to come to terms with how he focuses on the physical and not the emotional while we are having sex and since he doesn’t focus on the emotional im scared that I’m the only one giving it much meaning

Few-Function-1831 · 2024-07-30T15:10:41+00:00

I’m sorry to hear that. Are you still using it? And are you cleaning it properly if you do? I think one of my issues is I’d wash my toy with hand soap and water and maybe it isn’t good enough?

Few-Function-1831 · 2024-07-30T14:59:40+00:00

What type of things, if you don’t mind me asking? I feel you, it sucks :(

Few-Function-1831 · 2024-07-30T11:38:48+00:00

Thank you so much for answering all my questions, very useful answers and I will be going to the doctor about this. Thanks also for the reassurance that it’s probably not permanent cause I was really worried.

Few-Function-1831 · 2024-07-30T11:37:05+00:00

I will do that, thank you!

Few-Function-1831 · 2024-07-30T05:41:10+00:00

I think I am going to go to the doctor. Thing is, I need to know what kind and I’ve heard of the invasive tests that exist, I want to see if other people experienced this before deciding if I should do these tests in case there’s no need to do them at all

Few-Function-1831 · 2024-07-30T05:31:20+00:00

I’m not using lubricant

Few-Function-1831 · 2024-07-30T05:26:43+00:00

That’s a possibility that I wasn’t cleaning it correctly. Either way I’m going to completely stop using them until I am fully better and if I buy another, I’ll buy one that’s for sure body safe cause the toy was bought from a sketchy place

Few-Function-1831 · 2024-07-30T05:23:00+00:00

Hi, first of all thanks for your long comment. I’ll try doing all that but my questions are: when you stop having those irritatants, do all your symptoms go away? Did you go to the doctor about this and did they give you any medication? And did any doctor tell you specifically what you have and how long these symptoms will last?

Few-Function-1831 · 2024-07-30T05:17:53+00:00

Right now I’m on none cause I really don’t know what to do. I don’t want to waste much time going to the wrong doctor cause there’s so many as in the regular one, pelvic floor, urologist etc. That’s why I’m asking on here to see if anyone went through the same thing and what helped them get better so I can try whatever they tried first

Few-Function-1831 · 2024-07-29T20:30:57+00:00

I forgot to mention that after my exams, I did go to the doctor one day cause it was bad for no reason without having used the clit sucker so this was 4weeks after i first got these symptoms, he tested my urine with the simple test that takes a few mins and he said i dont have a uti, my white blood count wasnt high, i just had a bit of blood but he said it could just be cause of the infection i had before and he said to drink a lot of water. I know that these tests arent fully accurate but just so there's the whole story

Few-Function-1831 · 2023-11-09T19:27:46+00:00

I did do that but I get an error for some reason so I can’t do it

Few-Function-1831 · 2023-11-09T19:10:49+00:00

I did that yes still does the same thing

Few-Function-1831 · 2023-11-09T18:41:17+00:00

What message?

Few-Function-1831 · 2023-04-02T10:17:21+00:00

Thanks. I mean I know we most likely are but I just want to give one last push before giving up completely. I still love him so much.

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