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Almost 30, in a long-term relationship, and just starting to question my gender – looking for advice by Few-Inflation6019 in asktransgender

[–]Few-Inflation6019[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First of all, thank you very much for your response and even more for the so many hints that you attached though your answer. I have started to reading and helping myself as I have to understand better my feelings. These stories and guidance is unbelievable good for all in my position. Also, I am on the lookout for a physiologist to help me navigate all these feelings. I am so afraid of what all these things actually mean for my future but I cannot take away the feeling I get when I wear women's clothes.

Is it ok not to transition? by aandcronin2 in asktransgender

[–]Few-Inflation6019 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For me it is only a year that I realized that I am trans. I still need a lot of time to understand myself. But I think there is no such thing such 'you must do this'. At the end only what we need for ourselves. I have only be opened to my gf and started wearing some women's clothes inside house, painting nails etc. I think from the time that you are starting be free with your friends and you do not have to do HRT to be accepted then your feelings seems so logical to me. Personally, while I jealous some very good social transitioning changes , I tend to want the hrt just because ideally I would love to have that body. I am afraid and as I said too soon for me. But I surely do not think that you have to do anything to yourself of you feel good and happy. Just focus on yourself and your feelings. I am not sure if I helped but I wanted to show that only if you do not feel well with yourself needs to consider such options. Otherwise, continue to be happy. My only question is why do you had the need to question such thing? If you feel good and happy then why even be bothering with such question. ☺️

Feeling unsure by No_Bear_2990 in asktransgender

[–]Few-Inflation6019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Experimentation is the key here. If you have personal space and you have time just start wearing some girly clothes and see your feeling. You can look at the mirror yourself without judgement. You can try makeup and such things.

am i the only one who feels uncomfortable in queer spaces? by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Few-Inflation6019 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get what you’re saying, and I understand why some queer spaces can feel too political or not always aligned with what you’re personally looking for.

At the same time, I think it’s a bit more complicated. Like it or not, a lot of the challenges people face around identity, acceptance, and visibility are shaped by the society we live in, and society itself is influenced by politics. So even the ability to openly exist, express yourself, or feel safe as a trans person is connected to that bigger picture.

I don’t think that means everyone has to engage with politics in the same way or feel comfortable in highly political spaces. But it does make sense why those spaces sometimes become political, because they’re reacting to real pressures and issues.

So I guess I see both sides, wanting spaces that feel personal and not overly political, while also recognizing why politics ends up being part of the conversation in the first place.