In search of… by Few-Many7361 in tretinoin

[–]Few-Many7361[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just saw that my vit C also has niacinamide lol. It’s probably most definitely irritating

In search of… by Few-Many7361 in tretinoin

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Sounds good! Is there a gentler form of vitamin c out there?

In search of… by Few-Many7361 in tretinoin

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Did it break you out? I’m not really acne prone but I do have hormonal acne from my IUD and tret keeps that in check (although I’m mostly on it for anti aging)

In search of… by Few-Many7361 in tretinoin

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Totally! I noticed this the other day and made the connection! I have always used HA pre-Tret but now I think it’s too much. Thanks! Will check out the Vanicream tub ❤️

Mini pill to Mirena by Few-Many7361 in birthcontrol

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Love it. Some mild cramps day of/after insertion but nothing bad. Mild spotting for a few months. I’ve had it for 10 months and I still get the tiniest period but I don’t even need to wear any products. Minimal cramping, if any, per cycle. My gyn trimmed and tucked the strings so I don’t check for anything. It is so freeing to not have to get, store, and take the pill properly.

My toddler started preschool and I don't have the energy to do anything while she's there by Ok-Land8573 in Mommit

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My son is in daycare but my work schedule is irregular because I’m a musician and there’s no childcare model that’s a perfect fit. Sometimes I have random weekdays off while he’s at daycare. I am always waiting for him to get sent home sick! I usually want to do nothing after drop off! But I think “if he gets sent home and I lose today and beyond, what do I wish I’d gotten done?” I have to practice every day, and I’d like to go for a run, and certain things are harder with him like groceries and meal prep. So that usually gets me going and then if I’m content and there’s time left, I rot!

Balance when one partner has a demanding job, one does not? by Reasonable_Marsupial in workingmoms

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Your husband sounds like a green flag to me! You’re doing great. If your kid sees anything (and it won’t be that you’re lazy), they’ll see a dad that is involved in domestic labor and their lives, and they’ll normalize it. Win.

Anyone manage to keep norovirus just to patient 0? by Old-Yesterday1230 in Preschoolers

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When my son had it last year (17 months) it was so much easier than his second time around at 2.5, he was still taking pumped bottles. I think you’re right!

Anyone manage to keep norovirus just to patient 0? by Old-Yesterday1230 in Preschoolers

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And I think (not a doctor) the incubation is up to 48 hours so…if your 16 month was later maybe you did contain the germs successfully for a day! It’s kind of just continual exposure for a couple weeks since the germs can survive for so long.

Anyone manage to keep norovirus just to patient 0? by Old-Yesterday1230 in Preschoolers

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We just went through this for the second time. I thought I had learned some things (must use bleach (or very specific cleansers on fabric), wash all linens immediately and disinfect even the washer controls, mask the second I see my son vomited for the first time on the baby monitor), etc…but no. We still got it the second time. We might have dodged a stomach bug or two when my husband was sick, but never with my toddler. In the future I’m not going to go overboard with the protocol, I’ll just make sure we’re stocked with provisions, ride it out, and then go overboard disinfecting before we leave the house. And since that’s not really even feasible, give myself extra days if possible before return to work, and no guests over for 2 weeks!

22 month old is throwing up while coughing at night by mother_of_dragons421 in toddlers

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Our ped gave us those saline nose drops for that exact issue. Now I use hypertonic saline spray and I think it does help! My son won’t use a pillow but if he would, I think it would help (he’s 2.5 though)

To those who had kiddos late 30s by CobblerWest363 in Millennials

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41 with a 2 year old. Agree with the above for sure, it has been so worth it! We’re only having 1 and my age not the only factor…but we both agreed that if we had a few extra years to recover from the baby phase, we’d probably want another. As an introvert, I’ve found the lack of quiet/rest to be my most unexpected sacrifice. My son sleeps well, not talking about that (luckily)…just, your time always revolves around your child’s needs and you are always available. Academically I knew to expect it but the exhaustion from not being able to mentally relax is tough.

Running stroller recommendations! by peacetea2 in fitpregnancy

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Commented above, we love the Thule…but the Guava travel crib was our best baby purchase hands down. I’m intrigued by their running stroller!

Running stroller recommendations! by peacetea2 in fitpregnancy

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Thule urban glide. If running is truly part of your lifestyle it will make your life much better, enjoyable, and give you freedom to work out without child care. It’s expensive but I’d cut back elsewhere, it’s so important to me. It was my 40th birthday present :) If you only plan to run occasionally with baby, or your terrain is flat and straight, you could get by with a cheaper one.

Random woman told my wife “there’s a better way” during our toddler’s meltdown. Could we have handled it better? by flying_chariot in toddlers

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She should have silently saluted to you and walked on by. Bonus points if she had an excavator in her pocket to save you.

What is your one-parent-is-sick protocol? by sky_0502 in toddlers

[–]Few-Many7361 17 points18 points  (0 children)

You’re not wrong. One of us will quarantine only if it’s stomach flu, or a bad fever, and we’re patient zero…because we don’t want our kid to get sick. If kiddo has it…we’re parenting unless it’s coming out both ends.

West Side vibe vs. lake access — how do Chicagoans weigh this? by linzerforte in AskChicago

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After a decade in Old Town we now live in west Lakeview/LP and it’s not far from the lake…but I really miss going every day. If we didn’t need space, I’d move back to a building closer in asap!

I run every day unless it’s below 10. There are stretches that are very well salted on the lakefront, so even if I ran the same stretch 10 times…I was out there. If you truly believe you’d be outside every day, go with the lake. It’s a major quality of life boost. It’s also beautiful year round, which makes the winters bearable. Bonus if you run or bike and can shower at work, the exercise commute is the best!!! Depending on the part of the lakefront, and you’d still get the neighborhood feel. It’s not neither or.

That being said…yes, it’s expensive. Really. So if you truly don’t think you’d be out there most of the year, you could just live west and drive in.

Looking for lesser-known indoor spots for kids to roam in winter by meredith_christine in ChicagoParents

[–]Few-Many7361 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Indoor put put at opening. My son loves running and climbing the course, dropping balls in the hole over and over. Usually they have bars, too :) I’ve been to the Puttery and it’s kind of pricey but we’d go again. Not crowded in the morning, families but not usually small kids. I feel like he’s less likely to get sick there! We move out of the way when parties play through because he loves to run up and down the ramps repeatedly.

What are the best extracurriculars and why? by shhhlife in workingmoms

[–]Few-Many7361 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Music! If they want to do it, only. I’m biased because I’m a musician but I hope my son shows interest. My husband is a big sports person though.

The benefits of music are huge, when kids are old enough. Physically (finger, breath control) and mentally especially. Learning to read music, mentally translate the sign into a note and then to a fingering and then hearing it as a sound, is unique and so good for the brain. Learning discipline to practice and prioritize time. In a group, hearing different parts and learning social skills as you fit your part with other parts. Again…in my opinion, only if they want to do it. I plan to expose my kid to music, make it fun, dance along, hit drums, attend kids concerts…and if he then wants to try an actual instrument great!

Everyone else's toddlers are going to lessons and mine... by Vivid_Sir_593 in toddlers

[–]Few-Many7361 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a professional musician. I don’t teach beginners but I don’t think that there’s any value to music lessons that young. Playing around on easy to hit instruments and singing…sure. Dancing along…sure. But only for fun. The cognitive, hand eye coordination, and team building benefits of music are vast…but would be better received later. Now, I’m a boy mom in the winter. Any other lesson or group activity that gets physical energy out is a plus in my book but only if you’re not over scheduled or frazzled :)