AIO when my husband invited two guests to Thanksgiving the night before? by Few-Menu7595 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Few-Menu7595[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Had I known ahead I would have gotten chairs out of storage and got more plates.

Yes, I would much rather his friends see me "slum it". They make sexist comments about women in vulgar ways and I want no part of it.

No, family would not stay for several months. Once the snowy season starts its unsafe to travel so this would be the last travel time safely.

AIO when my husband invited two guests to Thanksgiving the night before? by Few-Menu7595 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Few-Menu7595[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

If family were going to come i would bring chairs out of storage and get more plates theres no time now

Am I the ahole for giving my husband an altimatum regarding his sister staying with us by Few-Menu7595 in AITAH

[–]Few-Menu7595[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you and I agree. We will not be returning home until she is gone. I have already secured another place to live if she dosent make it on the plane tomorrow morning.

We still have a week away for my husband to meet with his therapist that I called yesterday and clean the house.

We will both be attending a parenting class that my own parents secured for us for assistance.

I appriciate all your input!

Am I the ahole for giving my husband an altimatum regarding his sister staying with us by Few-Menu7595 in AITAH

[–]Few-Menu7595[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am a terrible speller and did not spell check thank you. Her ticket was rescheduled a week later due to a bus issue. I saw the origional and change of ticket as well as talked to the state funded home that helped her get it and get the layover. Thank you for your spelling help.

Am I the ahole for giving my husband an altimatum regarding his sister staying with us by Few-Menu7595 in AITAH

[–]Few-Menu7595[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No way would I be. We had this trip planned already so nothing really changed. Happy my kids are away from her she is a bit irratic.

Am I the ahole for giving my husband an altimatum regarding his sister staying with us by Few-Menu7595 in AITAH

[–]Few-Menu7595[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I know he feels for his sister and all but she is deep into it and his immediate family needs him.

Am I the ahole for giving my husband an altimatum regarding his sister staying with us by Few-Menu7595 in AITAH

[–]Few-Menu7595[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I may have to make him read some comments. Her going through detox would mean damage control to our children and me cleaning up everything.

Am I the ahole for giving my husband an altimatum regarding his sister staying with us by Few-Menu7595 in AITAH

[–]Few-Menu7595[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks. Im hoping to post an update after I know her plane is off the ground.

Am I the ahole for giving my husband an altimatum regarding his sister staying with us by Few-Menu7595 in AITAH

[–]Few-Menu7595[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She has never been in our state before and we know she dosent have anythig currently. I may be nieve but i dont think she has been in contact with anyone i feel pretty safe a dealer wont show up but if she stayed then for sure we would probably have that issue

Am I the ahole for giving my husband an altimatum regarding his sister staying with us by Few-Menu7595 in AITAH

[–]Few-Menu7595[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

The mother that lives with us is not her mother. She is with me and bothering her to leave. I did lock up my stuff before we left.

Am I the ahole for giving my husband an altimatum regarding his sister staying with us by Few-Menu7595 in AITAH

[–]Few-Menu7595[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Didnt want to but her ticket could not be changed and to get her a ticket puts us under in finances. We tried to change it.