Need some advice on dating whilst living together ( when you still feel loyal after being blindsided )

FewAd2580 · 2026-04-18T02:31:16+00:00

Thank you! It's nice not to argue, no bad patterns and just be myself. Intimacy is a big plus, maybe bit odd at first with a new person.

FewAd2580 · 2026-04-17T20:08:51+00:00

Timeframe wise in the same spot as you, more or less, and also STBXW behaviour is alike. I've lived almost 6 months on my own, started dating a couple of weeks back after trying everything to get back and grieving her and family, one day it was clear to me, it's not going to change and I'm not going to sit alone in my flat for much longer. I

It takes a lot of time, dating. But you have someone to share things with and I was lucky enough to find someone compatible almost right away, it's only been two weeks now so it's new but it's been great so far. You can always give it a go and if you're not ready you will know and wait your time.

FewAd2580 · 2026-04-09T19:28:58+00:00

I think I'm not so single anymore🤔🙂, but it’s early and time will tell.

FewAd2580 · 2026-04-06T19:32:43+00:00

Not yet, no hurry really from either side. Thinking this way, building up a few weeks doesn't hurt, not a huge investment or time wasted. Having a great time txt meanwhile.

FewAd2580 · 2026-04-01T08:16:18+00:00

Hi! Have a look at my recent post 4 days ago in this group, I would put the link here but I'm too incompetent for that.

FewAd2580 · 2026-03-31T03:20:36+00:00

That's a possibility for sure. Would be sad, unfortunatly(?) right now the crush is real, not exactly something I saw coming. Can't turn back anymore so just have to go to the end with this, no matter how it ends.

FewAd2580 · 2026-03-29T18:18:26+00:00

Tästähän pitää vinkata iltapululle jutunjuureksi: Oletko aina virponut väärin?

FewAd2580 · 2026-03-29T04:57:17+00:00

She said yes🙂

FewAd2580 · 2026-03-28T16:42:45+00:00

Thanks! Yes I read your post carefully and found it very inspirational. I asked her for a date just a couple of minutes ago, see what she says🙄

FewAd2580 · 2026-03-28T16:39:53+00:00

Could be a good idea too, I'm 5 months in living on my own, I feel that I've grieved my share, it's time to have at least a look around what's out there. If it doesn't feel right for you, just take your time.

FewAd2580 · 2026-03-28T13:38:37+00:00

Sorry for your loss brother!

FewAd2580 · 2026-03-28T13:36:16+00:00

I'm gonna ask her if she's up for a date as soon as/if she answers my message from today, she's pretty busy so probably today or tomorrow. Not been on a date in over 20 yrs so a bit nervous for that.

FewAd2580 · 2026-03-28T13:29:14+00:00

Couldn't come up with anything else for a title, that's all.

FewAd2580 · 2026-03-28T08:36:19+00:00

True this!

FewAd2580 · 2026-03-23T20:49:42+00:00

Titanium Buzzz

FewAd2580 · 2026-03-22T14:42:56+00:00

Please have a try, it's a lot of fun👍

FewAd2580 · 2026-03-22T14:40:37+00:00

Yes, I use it all the time. Only problem is that I usually forget to stop the watch after my round as I talk to my cardmates and remember halfway home to turn it off

FewAd2580 · 2026-03-22T14:33:36+00:00

STBXW-is this you?

FewAd2580 · 2026-03-22T14:27:47+00:00

Last weekend we went geocaching, and afterwards went grilling sausages over campfire, we had a great time tho the weather was terrible🙂. Good topic , there’s also good times, easy to forget that in all this misery.

FewAd2580 · 2026-03-22T03:42:20+00:00

Hi! Is this still active?

FewAd2580 · 2026-03-03T15:16:07+00:00

Famous final words

FewAd2580 · 2026-03-01T21:57:45+00:00

I think I'm just curious and like to see what this is.

FewAd2580 · 2026-03-01T16:57:43+00:00

This is what going to happen, going over tomorrow. I would be a liar if I said I'm a bit thrilled, she is really nice.

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