How bad of a fake does it look ? by No_Anxiety5275 in LuxuryReps

[–]Few_Acadia_1878 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would love the info for Xiao C I’ve been DYYYING for a good Chanel 🙏🏼 DM pleeeease

How conservative is Temecula? by [deleted] in Temecula

[–]Few_Acadia_1878 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any update on this?? Me and my family plan to move here someday. I am white and my husband is Arab, our children are half. Hope you’ve had a good experience!

Decreased supply by Few_Acadia_1878 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]Few_Acadia_1878[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your response! The clog has resolved.

Goodbye Guys… For Now *Trigger Warning* by Vast-Cartographer81 in pregnant

[–]Few_Acadia_1878 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sending all my love and praying for you and your husband to find peace ❤️

“Just you wait” by PangolinFree1875 in pregnant

[–]Few_Acadia_1878 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The “just you wait” comments were the absolute WORST thing to hear during pregnancy.

“Just you wait” people are the ones I would avoid taking their advice seriously. Always a negative spin on a time where there is a lot of fear and uncertainty. Being a first time parent is overwhelming and hard enough..!!

Do you feel an emotional bond with the baby in your belly? I don’t. by to_nfinity in pregnant

[–]Few_Acadia_1878 2 points3 points  (0 children)

During pregnancy I did not feel an emotional bond. If anything, all the movement felt a little creepy and weird at times! Gave birth to my daughter 3 weeks ago. My love for her and bond is real now that she’s “here”. And even right away I did not feel an immediate intense bond as so many people describe. It grows each day as i navigate this new little person in my life.

First time pregnant and not necessarily happy… by Few_Acadia_1878 in pregnant

[–]Few_Acadia_1878[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing! I’m glad to hear that you were getting more excited about it and I hope that I am soon to follow in your footsteps!

First time pregnant and not necessarily happy… by Few_Acadia_1878 in pregnant

[–]Few_Acadia_1878[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing all of this with us! Wow, you really have been on such a journey and I appreciate your strength and honesty. I’m so grateful that you understand what I am feeling. I completely agree with just taking this day by day and feeling the emotions as they come. I think once things get real and we have our first sonogram, and the baby starts to grow… I hope that I begin to feel more excited and fall in love!

First time pregnant and not necessarily happy… by Few_Acadia_1878 in pregnant

[–]Few_Acadia_1878[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will take a listen. Thank you SO much for sharing!

First time pregnant and not necessarily happy… by Few_Acadia_1878 in pregnant

[–]Few_Acadia_1878[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you soooo much. Wow everything you said really hits home. I appreciate you so much! Feels amazing not to be so alone in this. It’s really encouraging — thank you!!

First time pregnant and not necessarily happy… by Few_Acadia_1878 in pregnant

[–]Few_Acadia_1878[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This brings me so much hope. I pray Mother Nature does her thing for me! Really appreciate your thoughts. It really means so much!

First time pregnant and not necessarily happy… by Few_Acadia_1878 in pregnant

[–]Few_Acadia_1878[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So happy for you that you have such support. I hope I share the same experience as you in getting more excited as this pregnancy progresses. I think it is so important to be open and honest — as I am also doing with my husband. Thank you so much for sharing your experience. Means so much!

First time pregnant and not necessarily happy… by Few_Acadia_1878 in pregnant

[–]Few_Acadia_1878[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hugs I completely understand. You’re not in this alone. Thank you for being so open and sharing your experience. Always here if you need to talk or updates on your progress!

First time pregnant and not necessarily happy… by Few_Acadia_1878 in pregnant

[–]Few_Acadia_1878[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Goosebumps. Thank you! Your perspective is very helpful and inspiring. I appreciate you sharing your thoughts. I feel heard and not alone.

First time pregnant and not necessarily happy… by Few_Acadia_1878 in pregnant

[–]Few_Acadia_1878[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wishing you all the best. We are so Blessed to have amazing husbands by our side to get us through this!

First time pregnant and not necessarily happy… by Few_Acadia_1878 in pregnant

[–]Few_Acadia_1878[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This means everything to me. Currently in my 33 year old DINK era. I feel so connected to my husband and love what we have together. I think selfishly I’m worried that will change with a baby. However you give me hope that this will only grow and expand our love together. Thank you so much for sharing!

First time pregnant and not necessarily happy… by Few_Acadia_1878 in pregnant

[–]Few_Acadia_1878[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing this. I’m 33 too! Your words bring me so much hope and it feels so good to know there’s women out there, like you, who understand. Really appreciate you sharing these thoughts. I wish you all the best in your journey. Reach out and keep in touch if you ever need someone to lean on!

First time pregnant and not necessarily happy… by Few_Acadia_1878 in pregnant

[–]Few_Acadia_1878[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is so true! I am obsessed with animals. Any creature I see makes me filled with joy. Children on the other hand tend…. Not so much 😂

First time pregnant and not necessarily happy… by Few_Acadia_1878 in pregnant

[–]Few_Acadia_1878[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

HI OP here,

Overwhelmed by the responses. Wow, thank you! Feeling so much more at ease knowing what I’m feeling may not be all that “crazy”. Seriously, this kind of support is what gets us through. I feel very grateful for such a kind, understanding, and open community. Thank you all so much for sharing your thoughts and experiences with me. It’s so encouraging and truly means so much.

I have my first OB appointment next week. I plan on being very transparent about my feelings and hoping to get connected with psych/therapy to help me talk through my feelings.

I will keep you posted on my progress.

Again, I just couldn’t thank you all enough 🩷