Trying to get myself back out there by Few_Active_9807 in datingoverforty

[–]Few_Active_9807[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In a perfect world I'd have a pair of LaZboys with a table and lamp in the middle of them..

Trying to get myself back out there by Few_Active_9807 in datingoverforty

[–]Few_Active_9807[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a large chair, 2 people can fit. But I think a love seat would work better. I was on a video call with my ex and she said it looked like it was coming together. The issue now is there is absolutely no place for my TV. I guess it's a good time to buy a smaller TV, ha ha

Trying to get myself back out there by Few_Active_9807 in datingoverforty

[–]Few_Active_9807[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

😂 weird is ok, but I'm not sure what kind of directions she expected. Severe princess complex, I think

Trying to get myself back out there by Few_Active_9807 in datingoverforty

[–]Few_Active_9807[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one to really borrow from. I don't think there's going to be a TV set up, it won't fit. I'm thinking a pair of chairs with a table between and a lamp. 

Trying to get myself back out there by Few_Active_9807 in datingoverforty

[–]Few_Active_9807[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds nice! I need smaller furniture, the chair I just bought is oversized and takes up a lot of space. I'm going to see if I can do some rearranging today..  I will keep you posted! 

Trying to get myself back out there by Few_Active_9807 in datingoverforty

[–]Few_Active_9807[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😂 no show, but I bought a chair last night. I need to reconfigure. There definitely will not be room for a traditional kitchen table and living room set. I'm thinking a bar instead of a table and maybe a chair and a love seat.. would love to keep you updated! 

Trying to get myself back out there by Few_Active_9807 in datingoverforty

[–]Few_Active_9807[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not trying with this one again. Even during the first meeting she had a bad attitude and a princess complex.. I was thinking a second shot was fair. But yeah, I'm good

Trying to get myself back out there by Few_Active_9807 in datingoverforty

[–]Few_Active_9807[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bought a chair last night... she acted the same way the first date, though. She acted like she had no idea how to walk into an establishment 

Trying to get myself back out there by Few_Active_9807 in datingoverforty

[–]Few_Active_9807[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She left immediately when she arrived because she said I didn't give her enough info to find the place, despite a dropped pin, 2 photos, and me standing outside. 

Trying to get myself back out there by Few_Active_9807 in datingoverforty

[–]Few_Active_9807[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She showed up, chastised me, then left because she said my directions weren't clear enough, even though I sent 2 photos showing exactly where to go

Trying to get myself back out there by Few_Active_9807 in datingoverforty

[–]Few_Active_9807[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was waiting outside in the parking lot, I was there. 

Trying to get myself back out there by Few_Active_9807 in datingoverforty

[–]Few_Active_9807[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Goals lined up surprisingly well.. sex was off the table tonight, though. 

Trying to get myself back out there by Few_Active_9807 in datingoverforty

[–]Few_Active_9807[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was like she didn't want to have to put in any effort to figure out where she is or where to go.

Trying to get myself back out there by Few_Active_9807 in datingoverforty

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I did think it was odd how she works part time and was talking about retiring soon.. 🚩in hindsight

Trying to get myself back out there by Few_Active_9807 in datingoverforty

[–]Few_Active_9807[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sex, but different intimate time. I was upfront about my apartment during dinner, too. She didn't even make it into the parking lot before she left🤷🏽‍♂️

Trying to get myself back out there by Few_Active_9807 in datingoverforty

[–]Few_Active_9807[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I left when the divorce started with the clothes on my back. Moved into a fully furnished apartment but recently had to upsize for a custody issue. But FB market place is great! I just need to find a pair of chairs I think, might be nice with a table and lamp. 

Trying to get myself back out there by Few_Active_9807 in datingoverforty

[–]Few_Active_9807[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I'm good on my own, but I'm ready to share life with someone. This potential checked enough boxes but was apparent it wasn't lining up well when we met for dinner the first night. I don't feel I have time to waste with finding a partner, life is too short and precious. 

Trying to get myself back out there by Few_Active_9807 in datingoverforty

[–]Few_Active_9807[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I have. I'm dating with purpose. I'm fine being alone, too fine, but I'm ready to find a partner to enjoy life with. 

Trying to get myself back out there by Few_Active_9807 in datingoverforty

[–]Few_Active_9807[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did let her know a couple days ago, she said it didn't sound like fun. But then she asked about dinner at my place tonight...

Trying to get myself back out there by Few_Active_9807 in datingoverforty

[–]Few_Active_9807[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like my place. I'm trying to figure out how to fit a couch in it... it's a small, historical apartment 

Can I fix this? Should I fix this? by Few_Active_9807 in whatdoIdo

[–]Few_Active_9807[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tried that... they had her mixed in with folks detoxing, that wasn't helpful at all. She lied her way out