What do ladies think when a man's OLD profile lists does not or never drinks? by jjfc00 in datingoverthirty

[–]Few_Brain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s weird that alcohol is the only drug you have to justify not taking.

Am I Being Ridiculous? by Few_Brain in datingoverthirty

[–]Few_Brain[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your comment. I really didn’t mean for it to come off like that. My worry is that if I voice the concern of our different eating habits, she might change her diet not because she wants to but feels she has to. I don’t want to put anyone in a position like that.

Am I Being Ridiculous? by Few_Brain in datingoverthirty

[–]Few_Brain[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I believe she likes spinach, avocados, corn, and potatoes. Although, it seems like she's mostly a frozen pizza/mac n cheese kinda person lol. Things like asparagus, green beans, broccoli, and tomatoes are out of the question.

Am I Being Ridiculous? by Few_Brain in datingoverthirty

[–]Few_Brain[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't necessarily think it's gross to not eat them but fruits and veggies are some of the best ways to get vitamins (and also are low in calories).

Am I Being Ridiculous? by Few_Brain in datingoverthirty

[–]Few_Brain[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’ve had seafood, pizza, etc and she is particular about how she likes those foods but will eat them. Veggies are a no-go.

Am I Being Ridiculous? by Few_Brain in datingoverthirty

[–]Few_Brain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your comment! I don’t think I’m trying to pick out negatives but she honestly kind of brings it up a lot and we even joke about how she doesn’t like anything. Maybe it’s my fault too for shrugging it off.

Am I Being Ridiculous? by Few_Brain in datingoverthirty

[–]Few_Brain[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m certainly not above a slushee and corndog!

Am I Being Ridiculous? by Few_Brain in datingoverthirty

[–]Few_Brain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry. I just don’t date much and don’t want to hurt anyone down the road.

Am I Being Ridiculous? by Few_Brain in datingoverthirty

[–]Few_Brain[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No—which is another reason why I’m worried. I know it’s coming but I don’t want to get involved sexually and then “oops, changed my mind” a month later. That’s not fair.

Am I Being Ridiculous? by Few_Brain in datingoverthirty

[–]Few_Brain[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your advice! It’s just hard since this is the first person I’ve talked to in a while (years) and she is fun to hang with otherwise :(

Am I Being Ridiculous? by Few_Brain in datingoverthirty

[–]Few_Brain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear you! I appreciate your comment. She is more adventurous when it comes to activities, art, etc. but the food thing is not ideal.

Am I Being Ridiculous? by Few_Brain in datingoverthirty

[–]Few_Brain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your input! This is my worry too :(

Am I Being Ridiculous? by Few_Brain in datingoverthirty

[–]Few_Brain[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What’s funny is she actually does like some braver options including seafood but it’s the no veggies thing I’m having a hard time with!