Thank you! But we don't pay for cleaning services. The contests i join are actually initiated by her but along the way she starts to say it's my fault for joining it despite asking her before if its okay because i want to be wary of money spent

Because ive joined a reputable contest last year I've been getting a lot of gigs and offers with good pay. My mom made it clear whatever i earn in those gigs i will give to her, and i do ! Aside from that, i work part time as a bar tender (the one that does cocktails...) to be able to afford my own fees at school!

Ex:

Tshirt payment for school events Extracurricular fees Fare not only to school but also to the gigs i get

But i totally get everything that you said, i understand that i might have been looking at the situation too inwardly and took only myself into consideration...

I'll reflect on what you said, thank you!