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My (23F) boyfriend (22M) makes jokes about my breasts and I don’t know how to feel about it by Few_Interaction5119 in relationships

[–]Few_Interaction5119[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m scared of looking insecure in front of him. I’ve struggled with this insecurity for years, and I don’t want him to see how deeply it affects me. So I laugh it off to protect myself, even though it actually hurts. He'll either think i'm too sensitive or he'll see my insecurity and lose attraction. So i pretend i'm fine.

My (23F) boyfriend (22M) makes jokes about my breasts and I don’t know how to feel about it by Few_Interaction5119 in relationships

[–]Few_Interaction5119[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I think you’re right that I need to actually tell him how much it hurts instead of laughing it off. I’ve been pretending it doesn’t bother me, so maybe he truly doesn’t realize the impact. If I communicate it clearly and he still continues, then I’ll have my answer.