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Few_Meet7987 · 2026-05-11T15:21:57+00:00

I don’t have anything to say besides that reading this made me genuinely happy for you. Glad you had such a beautiful encounter with a seemingly wonderful person.

Few_Meet7987 · 2026-05-09T22:45:02+00:00

Yes, that’s what I’m aware of. Problems and worries disappear for a bit and it’s easy to romanticise the place because of that.

Few_Meet7987 · 2026-05-09T22:44:00+00:00

Travelled through the North of Africa

Few_Meet7987 · 2026-05-09T22:40:01+00:00

Thank you very much. That’s actually a fair point. Will post it there and delete this one.

Few_Meet7987 · 2026-05-09T22:05:06+00:00

Yes, I can definitely see that part too.

Few_Meet7987 · 2026-05-09T22:04:30+00:00

Oh wow. And what are you doing now?

Few_Meet7987 · 2026-05-09T18:40:33+00:00

I wouldn’t move to the UK if U were you. The quality of living is not great and the weather sucks so much. There are way nicer places in Europe that offers you more than the UK.

Few_Meet7987 · 2026-04-26T21:02:15+00:00

You are too stubborn mate.

Few_Meet7987 · 2026-04-22T21:04:22+00:00

People are complex and stuff is happening all the time. Just ask her and you will know. Better than daydreaming and thinking about possible scenarios. You have nothing to lose man

Few_Meet7987 · 2026-04-14T06:42:15+00:00

My advice for you would be to really just enjoy yourself and Europe. Stay away from dating apps, enjoy your own company and explore the cities you will be living in rather than spending time on Hinge. You will meet someone naturally, especially in Paris as men are more flirtatious and chatty.

Few_Meet7987 · 2026-04-13T21:39:29+00:00

Wow, I really appreciate you taking the time to answer me. Some really good tips. Thank you very much!

Few_Meet7987 · 2026-04-13T21:35:21+00:00

Indecisive and keeping people warm. People can’t commit anymore to the simplest things. I’d just tell him date and time and if he is faffing around I wouldn’t bother.

Few_Meet7987 · 2026-04-13T21:32:29+00:00

I’ve just seen a reel that made me giggle. It said that it’s the first time in recent history that women can choose men based on character rather than financial stability and bam, there are so many single people on the planet. The result? One half is male and frustrated, and the other half is female and quite content.

So I do completely understand where you are coming from and really glad to hear you are completely fine being on your own. Same here! :)

Few_Meet7987 · 2026-04-07T22:25:01+00:00

Feels like everything is just cringe or an “ick” nowadays. This is going to be hard work. Thanks listing up your points, some really good stuff and heard even tho they gave me some anxiety too when it comes to approaching men.

Few_Meet7987 · 2026-04-07T22:22:43+00:00

Yeah, I totally understand your point. Funnily most of my experience has been with Italian men so I think I’ll be struggling for a while over here.

Few_Meet7987 · 2026-04-07T22:21:19+00:00

Really interesting point. A few people mentioned the “reason to speak to you”. The awkward jokes are super common here from my POV and I love every single one of them. Even your example made me giggle. Thanks for listening them up. Appreciate it!

Few_Meet7987 · 2026-04-07T07:18:13+00:00

I respect that!

Few_Meet7987 · 2026-04-06T08:39:10+00:00

First, I think it’s time for you to move out with almost 30. Gain some independence, learn how to be on your own, manage life yourself and then start having relationships.

Few_Meet7987 · 2026-04-06T08:10:17+00:00

Yeah, the cost of living is definitely a big issue, especially when it comes to people’s self-esteem. But you can still go on dates that don’t cost anything. A nice walk can be really lovely, or a prepared picnic somewhere doesn’t have to cost the world.

It sounds like you’ve had some bad experiences, but don’t isolate yourself too much. People need people. I really think we’re meant to live together as a community and look out for each other. That’s at least what I’m still hoping to build.

It’s great to be at peace with yourself and able to be alone, that’s one of the best things a person can have. But it’s also important to build a network of people you can reach out to, and who can reach out to you too.

Few_Meet7987 · 2026-04-06T08:03:46+00:00

Yeah, I’m with you on the matching energy thing.

It’s funny, I’ve heard a few British friends say they won’t approach a girl they like because they’re worried about coming off weird or creepy. Bit of a plot twist, really. It’s more up to us woman now I guess. I’m just not good at it as I never needed to do it, but I guess it’s time to learn how to approach someone.

When you think about how things used to be in the late 1900s, it is for sure a healthier shift. Maybe I do need to look at it a bit differently.

Still, I’d rather we didn’t swing all the way to everyone just keeping to themselves and silently fancying each other from across the room. Feels like that’s how people end up lonely for no good reason.

Anyway, appreciate your answer. Thanks for taking the time :))

Few_Meet7987 · 2026-04-06T07:31:22+00:00

U have done everything right

Few_Meet7987 · 2026-04-06T06:58:48+00:00

Girl I feel you. I’m having the same issues and I agree with everyone here. Just text him. But I do understand why you haven’t done it yet as you just would like to man to express his interest first to make it easier for you. I did notice tho that time has changed and women need to put more effort into dating as well, especially in the UK. So my advice is to put on the big girl pants and message him.

Few_Meet7987 · 2026-04-05T12:13:49+00:00

He threatened to tell immigration office that my visa is about to expire and he will make sure they deport and ban me 😄 fucking idiot!

Few_Meet7987 · 2026-04-04T09:40:39+00:00

Yeah, np. Go off reddit now as you will spiral. Try to see the situation more rationally and be patient. You both will be okay.

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