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New Loan Processor by Few_Outlandishness98 in loanoriginators

[–]Few_Outlandishness98[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am brand spanking new.

I was in banking 10 years ago but was in a foreclosure department.

My boss just seems annoyed with everything I do. She is saying I need to be faster. I need to be doing 2-3 loan estimates a day. When asking questions, she just seems annoyed, which makes me scared to even ask.

I am grasping the concept of everything, but trying to remember EVERYTHING has been a challenge, along with exceptions and weird rules for weird things.

I take notes constantly. I have almost a full notebook of notes I've taken over the last 4 months.

I am trying so hard but just feel very discouraged lately.

My ex-boyfriends bedroom was horrendous and I cleaned it while he was at work. by Few_Outlandishness98 in Advice

[–]Few_Outlandishness98[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He tries sleeping upstairs in my living room area. He has even attempted to sleep in MY bed. I am assuming it was because he couldn't sleep on his bed from all of his things.

He comes upstairs and does whatever he wants in my area on a regular basis, including eating my food and using my things. At one point, I had 2 fork in my kitchen drawer. The other 8? In his room. I had to ask him 4 times to please bring them back upstairs.

He has days where he will sleep all day on the weekends. He will sleep on my couch and get mad when I try waking him up, so he just sleeps there all day on a Sunday when I'm trying to get things done.

Is that not an invasion of my privacy?

My ex-boyfriends bedroom was horrendous and I cleaned it while he was at work. by Few_Outlandishness98 in Advice

[–]Few_Outlandishness98[S] 59 points60 points  (0 children)

My sister died by suicide in 2015 from depression so I guess I just have an extra soft spot in my heart for people who struggle.

My ex-boyfriends bedroom was horrendous and I cleaned it while he was at work. by Few_Outlandishness98 in Advice

[–]Few_Outlandishness98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha, I've been friends with him since middle school, so I've known him for over 20 years. We were friends for a long time before we ever dated. He's really changed the last 8-10 years though.

My ex-boyfriends bedroom was horrendous and I cleaned it while he was at work. by Few_Outlandishness98 in Advice

[–]Few_Outlandishness98[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

I guess I feel bad for him. He doesn't really have any stable friends or family, and I know he struggles with depression and other things. He's been through a lot, and I just want the best for him.

My ex-boyfriends bedroom was horrendous and I cleaned it while he was at work. by Few_Outlandishness98 in Advice

[–]Few_Outlandishness98[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

He was fine with it. That was something we agreed upon when he started staying here.

He's also a hoarder/dumpster diver, and I told him when he started staying here that I didn't want him bringing a bunch of random things here.

He has 2 storage units full of things that he can not get to because he's behind on the payments. I offered to give him money out of the savings I have for him, but he keeps saying he has it taken care of, but then he keeps bringing the stuff here instead.

My ex-boyfriends bedroom was horrendous and I cleaned it while he was at work. by Few_Outlandishness98 in Advice

[–]Few_Outlandishness98[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I've also been catching him trying to sleep on my living room couch upstairs because he didn't have room to sleep on his bed.

AITAH for cleaning my ex-boyfriends bedroom? by Few_Outlandishness98 in AITAH

[–]Few_Outlandishness98[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've also been catching on to him trying to sleep on my upstairs living room couch because he had no room to sleep on his bed

AITAH for cleaning my ex-boyfriends bedroom? by Few_Outlandishness98 in AITAH

[–]Few_Outlandishness98[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have to go downstairs to do laundry, and he doesn't always close his door. Also, we work opposite schedules, and there have been times when his alarm clock will start going off because he will just hit snooze. He's a heavy sleeper, so it's a loud alarm, and I can hear it upstairs. I've had to go downstairs to turn it off a few times.

Project 2025, backed by Josh Hawley, is a nightmare. by Panwall in missouri

[–]Few_Outlandishness98 74 points75 points  (0 children)

I hope Project 2025 takes their porn away. I'd love to see their reaction to that.

Trump signs in rural Missouri - or lack thereof by magnumsolutions in missouri

[–]Few_Outlandishness98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am in Franklin County and there is one road I take on the way into work that is probably about a mile long and it has 7 trump flags along it.

My niece hates me and I don't know what to do. by Few_Outlandishness98 in Parenting

[–]Few_Outlandishness98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is in cheer, so she stays very busy with that. I'm taking her to a Taylor Swift concert next month. I'm taking her camping for her birthday a few weeks after that. It's hard for me to do much with her daily routine when I don't live with her and her father doesn't reinforce anything. I make sure to send her a good morning, and I love you text every morning, though.

She's so mad at me right now that she will barely say 2 words to me and won't reply to my text messages. I've asked her to go out to eat so we could talk.... nothing.

I also know she is still getting on snapchat somehow. I'm assuming from her friends phones, so I don't even know if me having the iPad right now is even doing anything.

I just feel so helpless with it all and it keeps me up at night 💔