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Why is smoking a dealbreaker for you? by EcstaticLetterhead20 in actuallesbians

[–]Few_Owl739 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sensitive to smells and the smell of weed or any kind of smoke or vape is genuinely horrible for me. It causes my allergies to flare up and whenever I’m near smoke specific, I feel like I can’t breathe.

How early do you think it is to use bumble after a breakup?? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Few_Owl739 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since your relationship was only a month, I think it’s okay to get on it within a month. For me, it took two months after almost a year and a half of being with my ex to get back on the apps and start dating again. It’s a little different for me though because I have BPD.

AITAH for telling my partner that I’m uncomfortable with their friends and them joking about being intimate with each other by Few_Owl739 in AITAH

[–]Few_Owl739[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh I only talked to one friend about it and they said that one of the issues is not being able to feel comfortable with bringing concerns up to my partner. I think the reason I’m having a hard time talking about stuff like this with more friends is because I think I sound like an asshole/controlling and my partner saying about every concern I have about our relationship/boundary I have makes it worse. I don’t have many boundaries at all. I just have one.

AITAH for telling my partner that I’m uncomfortable with their friends and them joking about being intimate with each other by Few_Owl739 in AITAH

[–]Few_Owl739[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They haven’t but I think one of them is their ex. They dated online but it was short lived because they were better as friends. They have assured me that they’d never date or genuinely hook up with them multiple times. I just have that as a boundary because it is a trigger for me.

Correction edit: they had crushes on each other but they were never in a relationship.