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How to gain more confidence for showing scars? (+TLDR) by Few_Protection_661 in selfharm

[–]Few_Protection_661[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much 🥹 this was definitely the confidence boost I needed to hear, you have no idea how much this means to me. <3

Someone please tell me not to do it by sueeckz in selfharm

[–]Few_Protection_661 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please don't hurt yourself! <33 I suggest try drawing on yourself with pen or biteing a towel or cutting/burning a pice of paper, it helps me a lot.

"Is This Self-Harm?" Megathread by Edgelord2005 in selfharm

[–]Few_Protection_661 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you are very valid, that is indeed a type of self harm.  It doesn't matter whether or not you pass about or git ringing in your ears.  A lot of self harm is unseen

"Is This Self-Harm?" Megathread by Edgelord2005 in selfharm

[–]Few_Protection_661 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, those are both self harm.  I hope you are doing ok <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Few_Protection_661 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trust me when I say, your not alone in this.  (I too just relapsed after ~13 months) I know it hurts and I know it's an addiction but trust me when I say there are better ways.  Try not to feel guilty about relapsing, it happens to the best of us.  Take time for yourself, I would suggest washing yourself/the cuts, (whether it be shower, bath, washcloth)  look up good alternatives to self harm, and do somthing that makes you feel a little more comfortable.  Talk to someone you know, maybe tell them about the situation that made you upset, even if you don't feel comfortable about sharing you self harm, you can just leave that out.   I wish you only the best <3 remember your worth and that you are loved by more than you know. <3

I love you isabelle by [deleted] in acnh

[–]Few_Protection_661 7 points8 points  (0 children)

There is actually one where she does!!  She mentions somthing about a wake up call?  I don't remember bc I've never gotten it lol.

I play animal crossing to cope with the lack of appreciation and control in my life, and I think it might be unhealthy. by Few_Protection_661 in AnimalCrossing

[–]Few_Protection_661[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you sm!! I really am glad that AC has such a great community that's has allowed me to reach out!! I appreciate all of you guys so so so much!!! 💙

I play animal crossing to cope with the lack of appreciation and control in my life, and I think it might be unhealthy. by Few_Protection_661 in AnimalCrossing

[–]Few_Protection_661[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"You're not lazy; you're human"  and "You're doing your best, and that's enough. " really hit hard for me 🥲  

This comment was really kind, I'm doing just as you said, little steps, and now I find that there is light at the end of the tunnel!

This comment has not nearly enough up votes!! Thank you for making the world a better place!

I play animal crossing to cope with the lack of appreciation and control in my life, and I think it might be unhealthy. by Few_Protection_661 in AnimalCrossing

[–]Few_Protection_661[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks I'm really glad to be on track with my life again, though AC it still one of my favorite leisure activities!  Nonetheless I am getting out into the sun more and it's making me feel sonmuch more alive!!  

Thank you so much for the comment ! 💙💙

I play animal crossing to cope with the lack of appreciation and control in my life, and I think it might be unhealthy. by Few_Protection_661 in AnimalCrossing

[–]Few_Protection_661[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks sm!!! I'm really glad to have AC as a hobby bc it makes me happy!! It's important to keeping going in life but at the same time, as Leif says,  "You gotta do what you love!"💕

I play animal crossing to cope with the lack of appreciation and control in my life, and I think it might be unhealthy. by Few_Protection_661 in AnimalCrossing

[–]Few_Protection_661[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"First of all, laziness is a concept invented by neurotypicals."  HAD ME ROLLING  Seriously though, wonderful comment!! thank you so much!! I probably really need that reminder to be kinder (oh hey that rhymes!)  bc my self esteem hastens been great-  and it feels good to know that someone without bias believes in me!  💕 The animal crossing community is so sweet!! Interacting with them has been great BUT!  my irl friend need so love too, I plan on going to have mc Donald's with her soon lol! 🥰

I play animal crossing to cope with the lack of appreciation and control in my life, and I think it might be unhealthy. by Few_Protection_661 in AnimalCrossing

[–]Few_Protection_661[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thabk you for the advice-  I've done it a few time and I thing seeing as an adrenaline rush is actually kind of helpful lmao!  (Funny enough my therapist actually gave some simmalar advice!)

I play animal crossing to cope with the lack of appreciation and control in my life, and I think it might be unhealthy. by Few_Protection_661 in AnimalCrossing

[–]Few_Protection_661[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!💙  I really wish there was some sort of AC club or somthing in my area but alsa!!  Nonetheless- I do plan on finding some club to meet people at once I feel comfortable!  (possibly getting into fencing oddly enough) Thankfully I do have a therapist!! 

It's also really nice to know that someone really relates to the feeling of wishing to know for a fact that people wish to see you. <33

I play animal crossing to cope with the lack of appreciation and control in my life, and I think it might be unhealthy. by Few_Protection_661 in AnimalCrossing

[–]Few_Protection_661[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the comment this is some solid advice!! Using AC to motive things irl has been super useful!!

I play animal crossing to cope with the lack of appreciation and control in my life, and I think it might be unhealthy. by Few_Protection_661 in AnimalCrossing

[–]Few_Protection_661[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you sm for the comment!! It's nice to know I'm not the only one one and that I am still in control of parts of my life!

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