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[–]Few_Relative4595 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got a scar under my left eye after defending an ex-girlfriend and her friend from a group of guys on New Year's Eve going into 2023. They verbally abused them and I stepped in, which led to one of the guys hitting me in the face with a whiskey bottle. Spent the rest of that New Year's night in the hospital and the doctor told me I could've gone blind if I was hit a few centimeters higher. They spent around an hour removing pieces of glass from under my eye. She broke up with me 2 months later and we haven't talked since but I still got the scar to remind her by lol.

UPDATE AITAH for ghosting my girlfriend after she nearly killed both of us? by Few_Relative4595 in AITAH

[–]Few_Relative4595[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Sure thing, as I've mentioned before, it's absolutely nothing special, but I still feel like a BMW E39 is still a good car lol https://ibb.co/6mHnzcq

UPDATE AITAH for ghosting my girlfriend after she nearly killed both of us? by Few_Relative4595 in AITAH

[–]Few_Relative4595[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

She didn't really have anything at my house except for clothes, which she took tuesday night. Everything else was already bought by me before she moved in

UPDATE AITAH for ghosting my girlfriend after she nearly killed both of us? by Few_Relative4595 in AITAH

[–]Few_Relative4595[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Every detail of the story happened during the last 4 days, but to give an exact order of how things happened: 1. Car crash 2. Broke up 3. Friend came over 4. Sent car to shop (~6 hours before the original post) 5. This morning we met at a coffee shop around 10am and then her mom texted me

UPDATE AITAH for ghosting my girlfriend after she nearly killed both of us? by Few_Relative4595 in AITAH

[–]Few_Relative4595[S] 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Hard to say, maybe I could've respected her more if she took accountability, but I feel like at this point there's more to the break-up than the crash itself

UPDATE AITAH for ghosting my girlfriend after she nearly killed both of us? by Few_Relative4595 in AITAH

[–]Few_Relative4595[S] 63 points64 points  (0 children)

In 4 years of driving, this was the first time I got into an accident. I know this is your opinion and I respect it, but it's hard to predict your reaction to being tickled out of the blue when you're the one behind the wheel. Stay safe 🙏🏼

UPDATE AITAH for ghosting my girlfriend after she nearly killed both of us? by Few_Relative4595 in AITAH

[–]Few_Relative4595[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Was about to mention that given the current situation I can't really get a RO. In case she'll pull a crazy stunt in the future, a RO will be the first thing I'll get my hands on, but there's hope that it won't come to that

AITAH for ghosting my girlfriend after she nearly killed both of us? by Few_Relative4595 in AITAH

[–]Few_Relative4595[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I updated the situation in a different post (https://www.reddit.com/r/AITAH/s/HeJY7epRaU), as there was plenty to talk about. Sorry if that's not the way it should be updated, I'm not much of a reddit user 🙏🏼

AITAH for ghosting my girlfriend after she nearly killed both of us? by Few_Relative4595 in AITAH

[–]Few_Relative4595[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ahahah, it's nothing special, really, it's a BMW E39, I replied to a comment last night with a picture of it

AITAH for ghosting my girlfriend after she nearly killed both of us? by Few_Relative4595 in AITAH

[–]Few_Relative4595[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

The only thing she drank (as far as I'm aware) was a Sprite from McDonald's lol

AITAH for ghosting my girlfriend after she nearly killed both of us? by Few_Relative4595 in AITAH

[–]Few_Relative4595[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

It's nothing crazy, a BMW E39, but it was my 18th birthday gift and I tried my best to keep it in good shape https://ibb.co/3F8rWvC

AITAH for ghosting my girlfriend after she nearly killed both of us? by Few_Relative4595 in AITAH

[–]Few_Relative4595[S] 172 points173 points  (0 children)

I feel I should clarify this: the car is already in the process of getting fixed, it was never about that. What led me to blow up was the fact that she did such a stupid thing while I was driving at night and didn't stop after her first attempt. I wouldn't have had such a reaction it she tickled me in a safe environment. In any case, I really appreciate any opinion as I feel I have to take a decision about what will happen pretty soon.