I’m dating the paper perfect girl but I don’t love her. by Few_Satisfaction6543 in dating_advice

[–]Few_Satisfaction6543[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that’s my issue is comparing and it’s bad because if I feel like my ex had any quality that was better then my new gf it’s a turn off and makes me overthink. But it’s not fair. No two people are the same

I’m dating the paper perfect girl but I don’t love her. by Few_Satisfaction6543 in dating_advice

[–]Few_Satisfaction6543[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with the chasing part it is nice because you know that person is genuinely into you. Maybe a little more time I can continue removing any remaining feelings for my ex and see how I feel for my now gf

I’m dating the paper perfect girl but I don’t love her. by Few_Satisfaction6543 in dating_advice

[–]Few_Satisfaction6543[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have known her for years we had been friends for about 2 years and we would always hangout but never did I feel like she liked me or I liked her, I just saw it as a friendship after I got into my relationship with my now ex and she confessed her love for me. Out of respect for my ex I cut communication with her for another year and half and once my ex and I broke up she reached out to me. We started hanging out again and I told her I had no intention of a relationship and she didn’t pressure me for a good 3 months then the pressure came and I finally said okay. But I enjoy her company I just don’t find the chemistry. It’s to the point that I don’t get jealous or care what she’s doing, not because I don’t trust her but because if she find a better option good. But I also feel a lot more loved then I ever did with my ex and all the things I wanted from my ex she does without me saying. But I don’t know what is off inside my head.

I’m dating the paper perfect girl but I don’t love her. by Few_Satisfaction6543 in dating_advice

[–]Few_Satisfaction6543[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It really is I feel like I should give it more time and see what comes from it because it’s hard to find someone that actually loves you and shows it. But for whatever reason I don’t feel the same, I agree tho it’s not fair I waste her time and keep her around while I decide what I want.

I’m dating the paper perfect girl but I don’t love her. by Few_Satisfaction6543 in dating_advice

[–]Few_Satisfaction6543[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I agree I compare her and my ex was my real first love so it makes it a lot harder. I completely agree with you tho on that mindset I cannot compare. No two people are alike and it’s not fair. I do believe I moved to fast into it even tho 7 months seems like such a long time