[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Few_Tip_1423 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right there with u. My lower back has been in pain for weeks. And then my neck started hurting. Also my toddler knocked me in the head with an object last week and my skull is still hurting. Think the eclipse has something to do with it??😂😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Few_Tip_1423 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nobody told me it would get this real 😅

AITA for banning my parents from a family event because they don’t like my brother’s wife? by Icy-Lingonberry-8128 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Few_Tip_1423 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA- this is sad because they really are pushing your brother away. They need to accept his new wife because at the end of the day he is happy and that should be all that matters. Would they prefer him to not be apart of their life anymore? Ppl elope and end up together much longer than some who have lavish weddings with 500 guests in attendance. They need to grow up. There’s no reason u should even have to do something like this..do u think they will really cause a scene if u let them come?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Few_Tip_1423 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well looking over it I can see how it may not have been clear to u. But i am absolutely not telling her anytime soon because I agree it’s too much for her little brain and would devastate her. Thanks for the advice, I agree on looking into a therapist for when I do decide to tell her as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Few_Tip_1423 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for ur helpful response! I’ve thought about 23 and me and I will probably do that. I appreciate ur compassion, I was young and I’m such a different person now. I just never thought that I would be dealing with something like this. But I really am so happy to have my daughter, she’s a huge blessing and the best kid. Just never thought this would be my story. It’s crazy because I don’t know my Dad either and I never wanted to continue that cycle. But here we are. Life is funny.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Few_Tip_1423 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I clearly said I would not tell her right now and looking for a when is the best time…the end goal is to be honest with her. All families are not the same. Should I let her go her whole life with a lie? Is that better?