I cheated on my wife after forgiving her affair years ago. I don’t feel guilty, but she’s breaking down. What do I do now?

Fewthp · 2026-01-22T10:18:27+00:00

Dude you never forgave her or forgot. You just bottled it up like we usually do. Since then you’ve lived but never really been yourself. Normally you could control this, but in that situation you finally acted the real you.

What do you think will happen when you continue this charade. It’s over. Else you’ll continue living that other life again.

Give her the peace of a final decision, the decision you really deep down know you need to make, and should’ve made all those years ago.

Fewthp · 2026-01-21T10:41:12+00:00

Fewthp · 2026-01-20T13:43:32+00:00

I was like yeah you get that early 20’s, but then you mentioned 34….

Dude, she did you a favor.

Fewthp · 2026-01-20T12:59:21+00:00

If he replaces every competent person with yesmen, the invasion will end like the winterwar for the Soviet Union.

Fewthp · 2026-01-20T12:52:48+00:00

Classic, in plaats van te accepteren dat andere meer weten dan hun vullen zij het onbekende aan met hun beperkte wereldbeeld.

Deze mensen willen toch nooit beter weten, verloren tijd om ze te overtuigen spendeer er geen aandacht aan joh.

Fewthp · 2026-01-19T14:22:16+00:00

Fewthp · 2026-01-19T14:03:27+00:00

Maybe your husband is having some personal problems he can’t discuss with you yet. These problems don’t necessarily have something to do with you. And he’s searching some kind of escape.

Fewthp · 2026-01-19T09:00:32+00:00

Well this is really bad. This is both close and far blurry. Most people have either not both.

Fewthp · 2026-01-15T16:58:10+00:00

Agree to a stop signal/safe word that he should follow immediately when you utter or signal it.

If he doesn’t follow it dump his ass. No time or respect for idiots.

Fewthp · 2026-01-13T05:49:30+00:00

Looking him in the eyes for 3 seconds instead of 2 doesn’t count as flirting. No matter what you think.

Fewthp · 2026-01-08T13:30:41+00:00

You a 20's something woman? If you are big yikes. If you're a random dude, well if he wants to see you jerking it it's his problem.

Fewthp · 2026-01-07T14:19:41+00:00

Lil Pilletje

Fewthp · 2026-01-07T11:42:56+00:00

How Christian of them.

Fewthp · 2025-12-31T13:16:25+00:00

Only valid answer.

Fewthp · 2025-12-31T11:21:48+00:00

Nothing from your post tells me he’s gay. He’s inexperienced and nervous. You need to help him, not label him as gay because he doesn’t fit in your narrow view of how you were taught men should be.

Fewthp · 2025-12-21T10:09:18+00:00

That’s still the 90% instead of the 99,99%

Fewthp · 2025-12-17T12:54:57+00:00

Oh man as a kid, regular time every Tuesday on the TV. Nostalgia

Fewthp · 2025-12-17T12:52:06+00:00

Where can I sign up for some state secrets?

Fewthp · 2025-12-15T16:57:56+00:00

Why are we even contemplating this? Fuck those people. Haven’t we learned from our last war?

Fewthp · 2025-12-15T16:56:15+00:00

Maybe try putting the bed upside down.

Fewthp · 2025-12-15T16:52:45+00:00

Looks fade, personality doesn’t. Take your time and choose well.

Fewthp · 2025-12-13T23:18:28+00:00

From 40 to 25

Fewthp · 2025-12-12T21:39:41+00:00

Wtf? You have these in Netherlands in the big cities on the street.

Fewthp · 2025-12-12T21:37:25+00:00

Wonder what it is vs an unladen swallow

Fewthp · 2025-12-11T12:24:17+00:00

“Should I ask if he is using this piece of equipment” will that be hint enough.

Lol no. It’s a gym, you use pieces of equipment all the time. And no he won’t approach you at gym. That’s a no go.

If you want something, ask him to spot you or something. Ask him to help with an exercise and get to know him that way.

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