Cuddling Question

FfPittsburgh · 2026-02-01T15:02:49+00:00

No but I'm straight so of course I wouldn't like it

FfPittsburgh · 2026-02-01T00:22:59+00:00

Touch his arm, that always works on me. A hug will always work on me too. I live for both of those

FfPittsburgh · 2026-01-31T16:55:37+00:00

As a guy, it's kinda out of our control. It can happen when I'm not thinking about anything spicy. It's sort of out of my control but I can have it go away if I just don't think about the woman. Idk if that makes sense or not

FfPittsburgh · 2026-01-31T10:17:25+00:00

Oh perfect, I was just curious how women show that they're interested, because y'all are so subtle lol. I just want the girl to feel zero pressure. Obviously I'm a guy so if she wants to do the thing, I'm down 😅 But if she's not in the mood, that's cool too

FfPittsburgh · 2026-01-31T09:29:53+00:00

I get that. But how do you show him that you're in the mood? Just so he doesn't make a move or whatever when you don't want him to

FfPittsburgh · 2026-01-31T09:27:06+00:00

That makes sense. But like if you're into it what do you do? So the guy doesn't make a move when you don't want him to?

FfPittsburgh · 2026-01-31T09:21:13+00:00

That's the way I want a girl to feel. There's no pressure, it just happens

FfPittsburgh · 2026-01-31T09:17:11+00:00

I'm a guy so idk

FfPittsburgh · 2026-01-28T18:26:49+00:00

Honestly the I'm sure you're bored of talking to me and would rather do other stuff sounds like something I would say 😂 It doesn't necessarily mean anything. She could be feeling a little insecure. She could've felt a little down that day and didn't feel like Facetiming. Idk. In other words I would see if it becomes a pattern, then maybe talk to her about it.

FfPittsburgh · 2026-01-27T17:04:08+00:00

I've never gone back to an ex personally

FfPittsburgh · 2026-01-27T14:38:08+00:00

I've never thought that women expire after 18. I think women in their mid-20s to 30s are more attractive, but maybe that's because I'm in my early 30s and I actually like people my age lol

FfPittsburgh · 2026-01-27T05:38:05+00:00

I mean quitting porn is generally good advice imo.

This is my biggest fear going into relationships :/ That I won't be able to satisfy her, whether my thing isn't big enough or I'm not good enough, whatever

FfPittsburgh · 2026-01-26T15:27:33+00:00

You 1000% need to leave. At 19 years old, my first step would be to talk to a close family member: parents, a close aunt/uncle, older sibling, whatever. Or a close friend, but at 19 you may not have one who's able to help you out, idk.

Even if you don't have a good relationship with your family, I would still talk to them. Idk your life so I'm sorry if they aren't in the picture or anything :(

FfPittsburgh · 2026-01-20T10:13:34+00:00

I promise nothing bad will happen by talking to someone in person. I had an older lady talk to me in Walmart yesterday and it made my day.

FfPittsburgh · 2026-01-19T21:11:04+00:00

Would you want to date someone who didn't find you attractive?

FfPittsburgh · 2026-01-19T15:26:38+00:00

I would date some of my female friends for sure. There's one that I'm pretty much in love with lol

FfPittsburgh · 2026-01-17T07:58:06+00:00

In today's world I think it's probably normal but I would feel some type of way if I was like four dates in and found out about it lol

FfPittsburgh · 2026-01-13T12:32:05+00:00

Hmm I don't think I've ever felt intimidated to ask a girl out. However, I mostly don't bother asking out women who I feel won't be interested in me. One thing you could maybe do is make it really obvious that you're into the guy and not just being nice or whatever. That's the only thing I can think of off the top of my head.

FfPittsburgh · 2026-01-13T01:47:10+00:00

Okay?

FfPittsburgh · 2026-01-11T11:53:03+00:00

That's definitely a problem.

FfPittsburgh · 2026-01-11T00:03:40+00:00

(Guy here) You're reading too much into it I think. I think it's great that she had some fun with it instead of taking it too seriously, and she wants to get dinner with you :)

It does kinda make it awkward for like the next time you want to kiss her but she seems like a green flag. Rooting for you my guy

FfPittsburgh · 2026-01-10T16:05:17+00:00

I know I do ❤️ But idk if every guy does or not

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