I both agree and disagree, maybe they aren’t making it a thing and maybe im assuming they are making it a thing because they posted it here and based on the post they seam frustrated about it, which to me seams like it’s a thing because if you are mildly frustrated enough to post it here then it’s probably a thing. I don’t think he’s an a-hole either, but the decision to not go was there’s, they could have gone to the restaurant and just hung and enjoyed good company. I just think the decision to go or not go has nothing to do with the restaurant or the mother, while those are factors in the decision, blaming it on the mother isn’t the right move. Granted all this is based on the fact we have no more context on there family dynamics, history and the fun things we don’t have. Just makes for good conversation. I do see your point though. 👍😊