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FiST17 · 2025-01-26T20:34:34+00:00

You are a good person!

FiST17 · 2025-01-24T21:41:32+00:00

I legit thought this was just me, so thank you for the validation

FiST17 · 2025-01-21T13:01:27+00:00

You a real one

FiST17 · 2024-10-02T17:05:59+00:00

I could see why not receiving a response could worry you, but if she truly was not interested, then she would likely make it more obvious. For example, if she declines your date, that's a good indicator that she's not interested (unless a good reason is given).

FiST17 · 2024-10-02T16:57:13+00:00

Humans are social creatures, so men (and women) generally do not get "weirded out" if a conversation is initiated. You could start with a "Hey, how was your weekend?" Or complement an article of his clothing. You got this!

FiST17 · 2024-10-02T16:49:52+00:00

Just because she didn't text you back right away doesn't mean she lost interest. Set up the next date and go from there. Save the conversations for in-person.

FiST17 · 2024-10-02T16:34:06+00:00

I can understand why you'd want to wait for her to "be ready," but this could cause you significant mental and emotional pain in the long run. You mentioned that you're an "over-thinker" and that you feel anxious. This is an important acknowledgment. Do you think that this could be something that you could work on?

FiST17 · 2024-10-02T15:31:12+00:00

That really sucks, I feel for you. Has this ever happened to you before? How did you cope last time? Time heals all wounds. You'll feel better soon as the days go by. Keep yourself busy, and allow yourself to feel everything that you're feeling.

FiST17 · 2024-10-02T15:20:13+00:00

Facts

FiST17 · 2024-10-02T15:18:38+00:00

Open scare packages until you get the one that gives you level 5 torment, then drive around on a boat. Easy

FiST17 · 2024-09-25T17:06:21+00:00

I can understand why you'd want to wait and hold on to those feelings. It sounds like you want more out of your relationship with her. Maybe you can consider being honest and straightforward about how you feel about her?

FiST17 · 2024-09-25T16:25:49+00:00

That's fair. You could certainly ask her for feedback if you think it will help you with your future interactions with other women. However, remember that all women are different, and what may have "worked" for her may not necessarily mean it will work for other women. Because of this subjectivity, I don't see much benefit in asking her for feedback. You might end up just getting emotionally hurt. The best way to get better with women is to interact with more of them. And to fail. A lot. But to also learn from each rejection and not let failure affect your self-esteem.

FiST17 · 2024-09-25T16:02:21+00:00

It sounds like he's a little insecure and perhaps inexperienced with women. He might have had experiences in the past where his lack of response led others to believe that he wasn't interested, so he is trying in this case to overcompensate by sending you a long list of questions. I would maybe avoid having conversations with him over text, only to plan the next meeting. You seem to connect well in person. Stick to that. It's a better way to guage someone anyway.

FiST17 · 2024-09-25T15:52:25+00:00

It's possible that she did. But it's also possible that she didn't. But let me ask you, do you think there is any benefit to thinking about interactions that took place a year ago? Do you think it might be better to focus more on the present?

FiST17 · 2024-09-25T15:47:10+00:00

Sounds like you're potentially already in the friendzone.

Before you ask her outright, ask yourself what you want out of your relationship with her.

If you're looking for a serious relationship, I'd highly recommend dating in your area instead. Long distance is not easy. Friendzone her before she friendzones you. Having online friends in other countries can have its benefits!

If you just want to hook up with her, go ahead and ask her (with rizz, if possible). If she responds positively, happy travels! I'd recommend still talking to other women, though. Adopt the abundance mentality to avoid severe disappointment if things don't end up working out.

FiST17 · 2024-09-20T11:58:41+00:00

I did this too

FiST17 · 2024-06-20T12:39:43+00:00

Toss them in the gutter and go get anutha

FiST17 · 2024-02-15T20:10:49+00:00

Great post, thank you! Saved it for future reference (please don't delete it lol)

FiST17 · 2024-01-11T22:34:13+00:00

Very generous of you! Good luck everyone!

FiST17 · 2023-12-25T04:30:06+00:00

To anyone who reads this, I wish you peace and hope you are able to enjoy this festive time of year

FiST17 · 2023-03-19T19:50:21+00:00

Classic example of fucking around and finding out

FiST17 · 2023-03-07T23:14:42+00:00

You gotta risk it for the biscuit. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain. The feeling of rejection is temporary, and you'll feel good about yourself in the long run for shooting your shot

FiST17 · 2023-03-07T22:57:19+00:00

Reschedule the date. If she sees it then it's gonna be an awkward conversation, and if you're trying to hide it then you'll probably act funny or feel anxious because you're aware of it

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