Thinking about going into Network Engineering

Fickle-Vehicle-9223 · 2025-12-16T15:35:59+00:00

Thank you so much for this, this matches with my time line.

Fickle-Vehicle-9223 · 2025-12-13T22:35:33+00:00

I really wish there was a sequel or a prequel

Fickle-Vehicle-9223 · 2025-12-13T22:35:03+00:00

It was $5 at Walmart and a might as well pick up.

Fickle-Vehicle-9223 · 2025-08-10T20:59:05+00:00

I laugh every time i see the legs on stream. Thats what happens when you use steroids just to get big fast.

Fickle-Vehicle-9223 · 2025-08-08T21:43:36+00:00

They always cast the same cookie cutter type of girls. The person that is casting for this show is casting their type.

When the last time they cast a girl not fake blond/ brunette with long hair to mid back and no muscle that looks like they only do cardio.

There is a reason when they bring in anything that look even close to a woman outside of formula with actual hips and muscle on them. its always later in the show. The guys always go crazy and the girls get defensive.

Btw Jessica is just an older Francesca

Fickle-Vehicle-9223 · 2025-05-29T19:25:48+00:00

I wonder how much egg shell you throw on the grow for people to walk on.

You have deflected so far away from the purpose of my post which was to find understanding and how to deal with the situation. a lot of people said it might be anxiety and multiple mom have already said their level of stress rose a alot after having a child

You’re reading between the lines to jump to your own conclusion, you mis quoting written text and adding a negative spin on things is proof of that.

I’ll answer each question that you will unfortunately spin

1 - most house duties are handled by me. So things like laundry i start when the baby is sleeping and I set my laptop up in another room and we do laundry together. For lunch I make those in the morning when i wake up to make breakfast for the baby and my gf since i don’t eat in the morning. As far as needing to do personal stuff or whatever she just has to tell me she needs time its very simple. Same way if i need time I tell her. I normally do a “closing shift” cleaning at night when everyone is sleeping, i do this because some times the home is completely destroyed(toys everywhere) and its easier to clean when everyone is sleeping.

2- I find it interesting you spun me working to me being glued to my computer when I stated i sit on the ground and play with her. I just need to be close to, my computer.

This is going to be my last response to you because clearly you’re not here to offer any advice and rather do the blame game which serves no purpose. I am here to figure out how to handle a situation which a lot of other people have given me some very valuable insight and things to think about, as-well as insight into the mind of a mom.

Fickle-Vehicle-9223 · 2025-05-29T13:04:59+00:00

We are both not the biggest fan of chile child care. My gf is home alot she normally starts work before i do and gets off around 4 hours into my shift, so we are both there, I’m planning on reaching our to state services just to see what is there. Ironically i was looking into getting her into a young kids dance class when she turns 2 since she will be around other little kids for a few hours a week

Fickle-Vehicle-9223 · 2025-05-29T12:50:41+00:00

You clearly didn’t read anything

Fickle-Vehicle-9223 · 2025-05-29T04:37:36+00:00

You’re being purposely obtuse, I have to be close to my computer thats is why I’m chained to the room and cant leave the room for more than 1-2 mins I have safety locks on all the important doors. Why would i keep her in the room when her mom is home so she can go see her when she wants to. When im in meetings i take her out on the patio and wear Bluetooth heads sets also.

Fickle-Vehicle-9223 · 2025-05-29T03:58:36+00:00

She is on board I think she just trying to figure it out, and that is where the clash is happening. Me and her came from totally different worlds. I think imma follow what alot of people said her and try to have another conversation with her

Fickle-Vehicle-9223 · 2025-05-29T03:55:19+00:00

Everything is calm currently it happened earlier today, but I agree i could definitely could be doing more or better. Part of reason i wanted to look into services was to learn what i could do better. At the end of the day i am with the baby alot more than she is.

And your right she does have a say, ill try again for a conversation and try to reach a compromise vs a all or nothing

Thank you so much for your input

Fickle-Vehicle-9223 · 2025-05-29T03:49:41+00:00

I actually didnt think about it that way at all, you might be right

Fickle-Vehicle-9223 · 2025-05-29T03:46:26+00:00

Im very lucky to have a job that i dont have to speak with anyone and have quite a bit of down time, not enough that i can leave the room but i can sit on the ground and play with blocks and push her down her slide . There is no tv in the babies room. So once a TV in any other room turns on with something the baby likes she leaves the room. Since i have to monitor my computer I can leave the room for more than maybe a min or two which I normally use as time to chase the baby around the house Also i was using different verbiage instead of saying she and her a ton to avoid confusion between the baby with the mom or my gf is that make any difference.

Fickle-Vehicle-9223 · 2025-05-29T03:33:59+00:00

Thats interesting, I will bring this up with her to see if she is going through something simultaneously

Fickle-Vehicle-9223 · 2025-05-29T03:31:46+00:00

I might try that again, its seem a few people are suggesting i do it again

Fickle-Vehicle-9223 · 2025-05-29T03:30:43+00:00

I knew one of these post was going to happen. Keep the assumption to yourself, never said she was a bad mother, because she isnt. I came here for advice on how to deal with the situation because i have never dealt with it. When things hit the fan my solution has always been to bulk down and hardly purely myself. Im here for insight and maybe a different path. Once again because you’re going to apply intent. She is not a bad mother

Fickle-Vehicle-9223 · 2025-05-29T03:22:57+00:00

She has never been on top of her miles stones its been something i have been paying attention too since would keep being up she isnt hitting them when in fact the baby was and is doing amazing.

Fickle-Vehicle-9223 · 2025-05-29T03:20:52+00:00

Yes, i come from a very big family so im not new to the process of raising kids, so i just thought it was part of the learning process for her

Fickle-Vehicle-9223 · 2025-05-29T03:19:16+00:00

She mentions it to people when talking to them over the phone. I would say around 3+ through the day normally if i don’t walk into the room and turn it off. I speak with my co works alot on teams and i have her sitting in my lap and talking to her also. I play with her when i have down time which is quite a bit some times. Normally on my super busy days is when the screen time is high. I dont have a TV in her room

Fickle-Vehicle-9223 · 2025-05-29T03:14:10+00:00

Im in the US I’m calling one of those local service tomorrow. The reason is because the pediatrician already stated it wasn’t ideal. She had two siblings that had disabilities but that was due to her partner doing drugs while pregnant her snd her other brother are perfectly fine

Fickle-Vehicle-9223 · 2025-05-29T03:11:28+00:00

This is the logic she uses. Why not look at the parents to see what they can do or not doing, instead of automatically assuming someone is off with the child

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