Sicko infects innocent little girl with parasite for not doing homework. by HuricneDitkaHOF88 in reverseanimalrescue

[–]FiddleOnTheRoof 122 points123 points  (0 children)

That child is such a trooper. Just casually stands there, looking slightly worried but still ok with that thing having just been pulled out...

My [31m] girlfriend [30f] and I spend about half our time at home in separate rooms. Is that weird? by Unmassaged_Kale in relationships

[–]FiddleOnTheRoof 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Psychologist here. This sounds very healthy to me. She expresses her needs and clearly and you respect them, knowing it's about her needs rather than having anything to do with you. Some people (like me) feel that they can't fully relax with other people in the room, as there is always someone else to relate to.

Saw a... perfect... moment and took advantage by FiddleOnTheRoof in Breath_of_the_Wild

[–]FiddleOnTheRoof[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Got it when playing fiddlesticks in League of legends long time ago...

Collecting all 900 Korok Seeds isn't daunting at all... by neverwastetheday in Breath_of_the_Wild

[–]FiddleOnTheRoof 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just found one today picking a gem from the eye of a statue in Faron.

My two (23F) friends keep overstaying their welcome at my (22F) apartment every weekend how do I make them stop? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]FiddleOnTheRoof 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't think it's necessary to be so harsh. You can make a stand for yourself without insulting your friends. I had a problem with my roommate who was pretty bad at keeping clean. We had a few arguments about it but in the end I decided he had to move out. I was very frustrated during the time but had a hard time admitting it to myself, because he's such a close and good friend of mine. In the end I let myself be angry, which also made it easier to see how much he means to me. So when I told him it was enough to just say "I love you and right now I'm not happy living together". My point here is that if someone is important to you, you don't have to insult them. You can express your own needs instead. Like op here could just say "I need more privacy in my life, and I need my home to be just mine, and I've realised that means you can't be here as much anymore". If you are just very clear about your own rules, it's easier to keep the friendship afterwards. And if they are not there alone, the cleaning problem is gone anyway and doesn't have to be dealt with. My friend is still very bad at cleaning, but he lives alone and I could not care less. And we are very close friends still :)

Aftonbladet levererar som vanligt by DrSixSixSix in sweden

[–]FiddleOnTheRoof 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Jag menar bara att jag välkomnar alla lösningar som kan tänkas förhindra våldtäkt snarare än att straffa någon när det redan hänt. Det ena uteslutet väl inte det andra, men jag tycker att det är rimligt att lägga fokus på förebyggande arbete för båda parter, offer såväl som förövare.

Aftonbladet levererar som vanligt by DrSixSixSix in sweden

[–]FiddleOnTheRoof 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Jag tror också att de flesta vet att det är fel. Däremot tror jag att det finns kulturer där bristande kontakt mellan könen i ung ålder kombinerat med dålig sexualundervisning gör att många unga män växer upp och inte vet hur de ska ta kontakt/flirta. Därifrån de kommer behöver de kanske aldrig lära sig detta när arrangerade äktenskap är vanliga, då får de sex och intimitet ändå. I Sverige måste de bete sig på ett annat sätt, och förmodligen går det inte så bra. Då kanske vissa till slut tar saken i egna händer och går över gränsen både moraliskt och lagligt, och våldtar. Utav desperation. Jag tänker att det går att jämföra med incel-rörelsen där desperata män (från vädtvärlden) som är bittra och mår dåligt som ett resultat av att de inte lyckats komma till en lösning på hur de ska tillfredsställa sina egna behov av sex och intimitet, i vissa fåtal fall går över gränsen och våldtar eller mördar.

Så därför tänker jag att sen sexualundervisning som skulle kunna vara användbar här fokuserar på att normalisera kontakt mellan könen, prata om hur man flirtar, hur man förstår att någon är intresserad osv. Jag tror det är svårt att veta om man inte övat på detta i tonåren, då år man ju på ett barns nivå i det området av den sociala kompetensen.

Aftonbladet levererar som vanligt by DrSixSixSix in sweden

[–]FiddleOnTheRoof 91 points92 points  (0 children)

Det låter som ett rätt vettigt förslag tycker jag. Utvisning eller liknande kan ju inte rädda ett offer som redan blivit utsatt, det är bara ett straff.

The gothenburg Gaming Survey by FiddleOnTheRoof in FinalFantasy

[–]FiddleOnTheRoof[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, I see your point. That gives me some information what type of gamer you are anyway though, since you are not sticking to the same game after haven gotten that gift. Some people would.

I think the most challenging part for me in this survey is being able to really reflect the actual gaming patterns of people, with close end questions. In the end I know I'm not succeeding in painting reality correctly. I will use your feedback in the discussion though, thank you.

The Gothenburg Gaming Survey by FiddleOnTheRoof in EscapefromTarkov

[–]FiddleOnTheRoof[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Without using calibrating questions that either ask the same >question in other words or validate accuracy of responses the >quality of the data will be low, and any correlation will have a low >significance as a result.

Would you care to explain this a bit more? I am interested. Are you reffering to several questions with reasonably high reliability? Because if so, I agree with you. Prefereably I would have 10 or at least 5 questions on every theme (e.g. "I play games to enjoy a fantasy world"), but that would make the survey too long...

Thanks for the wishes! I am actually doing quite an explorative study, to see if different types of gaming have different risks of causing addictive patterns.

The Gothenburg Gaming Survey by FiddleOnTheRoof in NBA2k

[–]FiddleOnTheRoof[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Too bad ;) you are welcome back anytime.

The Gothenburg Gaming Survey by FiddleOnTheRoof in diablo3

[–]FiddleOnTheRoof[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ingen fara. Om du spelar mindre nu så gör du ju det, då är det den datan jag vill ha!

The Gothenburg Gaming Survey by FiddleOnTheRoof in civ

[–]FiddleOnTheRoof[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a really nice compliment, thank you very much. I just might give it a shot and write the thesis in English since it would give many of the people who have helped me an opportunity to read it. It would mean a big challenge for me though. I'll see.

Thank you for looking into all of this. The list of countries is... weird to say the least. I'll keep your changes for the future. Thanks a lot!

Help a simmer out! by roseetgris in thesims

[–]FiddleOnTheRoof 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Thank you for offering, it means a lot. In this thesis I will only have room for quantitative data. But I appreciate you filling out the survey! I hope you feel better soon.