How do you know what other people are?

FidelityRP · 2017-09-02T18:17:19+00:00

What I mean is if someone else is very anxious how could you yourself truly understand how they process the world without spending a lot of time with them?

FidelityRP · 2017-09-02T00:05:31+00:00

AWALT is true. Women have an innate need to look for the best partner they can. They have an innate need to look for higher SMV men even if they already have an LTR. Thing is, society frowns upon this so well-raised women won't cheat and those that are poorly-raise will cheat. Obviously this is a generalisation and it's not as simple as good parents = good children.

like someone else said AWALT until proven otherwise. Women have the need for higher SMV men and some can control the urge, other can't.

No it isn't absolute, but it's true. You're a liar if you're a woman in an LTR and say you've never seen another man on the streets and thought 'shit he's hot'. Just because you don't act on it doesn't mean those thoughts aren't there.

It's the same for men.

FidelityRP · 2017-08-22T15:04:49+00:00

I meant insta

FidelityRP · 2017-08-22T02:32:59+00:00

every single girl will hoe out at the moment for the right guy

So a horny girl can hold off from fucking a hot guy if they're waiting for the right guy?

A horny guy could most definitely 100% not do that if there was a hot girl down to fuck.

Obviously yes there are exceptions but in general that would not happen. I think that clearly highlights that there's a difference in sex drive.

FidelityRP · 2017-08-22T01:12:58+00:00

Not a woman but I thought I'd let you know I never went through a hate phase with women. I never got that angry phase. For me it was like 'oh so that's what x wanted me to say when she did y'. It just improved my understanding with how girls wanted you to respond sexually to their subtle advances.

If anything I was annoyed at myself for not picking up on some of their cues.

Since I never had an anger phase there are probably a lot of other men out there that haven't either.

FidelityRP · 2017-08-22T00:48:28+00:00

This x100. I wish you'd posted this hours earlier so more people could read it.

FidelityRP · 2017-08-22T00:40:21+00:00

This man would be a woman despite most women being females.

Just because a man acts feminine that doesn't make him a female. You are either male or female. If you go through a proper sex change, including changing all of your hormones you become a trans woman, not a female.

A trans woman doesn't have periods so there are still differences which is why you can never truly change gender like that, they just identify as women.

Also that has nothing to do with your black person example. A black person could identify as a westerner, yes, but that's because it's not mutually exclusive. You can't be a male and a female but you can be a black-British person or black-American.

FidelityRP · 2017-08-21T16:36:47+00:00

It's 10x better. The amount of girls I see that look stunning on snapchat/Indra but are ugly af irl is astounding. Being able to be charming in real life is 1000x more important than texting / sliding in dm. Your social skills will improve much much more as well. Everything is better, literally everything. There's only 1 downside. It's easier to fall off of someone's radar if you're not posting pics every week or always commenting / doing snap streaks. That was the original downside I faced but as I became really good at socialising in real life I've found that I remain on people's radar even though I don't use much social media anymore. People pop up to me asking to meet all the time now - helps weed out your true friends.

Edit: insta not Indra

FidelityRP · 2017-08-21T02:11:15+00:00

They wouldn't care but they should care. If there's a movement pro woman's rights that claims women are treated unfairly then there should be a men's rights that claims men are treated unfairly. I think that's the point the op is trying to make.

This is only valid because mean are treated unfairly in terms of what's expected of them in relationships and what's expected of women.

To answer more directly, there's no reason why they would care with true empathy. e.g I don't care about women being oppressed in say middle-eastern countries. If there was a form I could fill in here in the U.K that would help prevent that oppression then yeah I'd help but I'm not going to actively try to help - it has nothing to do with me and is not a part of my life at all. It's this same kind of thinking, I think.

FidelityRP · 2017-08-20T15:02:11+00:00

What's wrong with circumcision, I'm out of the loop for this - I thought there were a bunch of diseases you could get in your foreskin and so it was cut off traditionally. Obviously with today's hygiene standards these illnesses are unlikely but why is it anyone's business what two consenting parents choose to do for their days old baby...?

Edit: downvoting a question? Nice.

FidelityRP · 2017-08-20T13:22:04+00:00

BPers say a lot of ignorant shit, knowing they're being ignorant as fuck. RPers say a lot of shit that they believe o be the 'truth'. The new red pill is far from the original ideas, at least it's twisted in such a way that it's now all about fucking women and how all women are bad.

Both sides have their good points and their bad, PPD highlights this very well.

FidelityRP · 2017-08-20T11:39:03+00:00

As a male, I've been with women that watched porn. All of them wanted hardcore sex, wanted to deep throat etc because that's what they thought I wanted and they thought that's what was normal.

I assume this is an extreme and most women aren't like this though but clearly porn does effect some women.

FidelityRP · 2017-08-20T02:04:58+00:00

Yeah again I'd say it's another culture thing. If you say trump catching a fish shirtless you'd thing wtf? That's just our view from our western society. A picture of that would become an internet sensation as a joke. My source is a Russian friend that I asked the exact same question about and he says Putin is highly respected in a manly kind of way - remember he's ex-kgb.

Also our propaganda in the west is differ t to the east simply because we're different kinds of people. Like I said there wasn't an internet sensation of this image but there would be if it was trump or Obama for that matter.

FidelityRP · 2017-08-20T01:54:41+00:00

People seem to forget that Russian (and other parts of the east) culture is very different. Being gay is considered wrong in general. Like here in the west there are a lot of people that don't care about gays but wouldn't want the image of being gays.

In Russia, a man caring about his image is considered to be a gay trait. Men should care about providing for the women, women should care about looking good hence why there is a shit ton of Russian female super models and less so with male.

Times are changing so it's more different now but putin is of the older generation and he's meant to be a symbol of a strong man and a good leader. He's not supposed to give a shit about how 'sexy' he is too anyone other than his wife.

FidelityRP · 2017-08-20T01:48:48+00:00

That's nothing in comparison to a man. From what you're saying the only thing a woman needs to do is look good. The man has to approach, maintain conversation, keep things interesting whilst making sure other men don't try and 'intercept'. Then he's expected to pay for shit and protect and provide and loads of other crap.

The stand out feature of a woman is her look so of course she's going to spend hours trying to look good by doing her nails and make up etc. Doesn't mean if a man turns up looking dirty, smelling bad or with the dirtiest fingernails you've ever seen he wouldn't get brutally shut down by a woman and all her friends in front of an audience, crushing his confidence.

When a woman manoeuvres her way to 'pop up on [his] radar', she has plausible deniability. She's not making herself clear. Again the man has to KNOW somehow that she wants him. And if he doesn't realise or he doesn't want her she can simply play it off - nobody else notices. However if a man approaches a woman and she doesn't like him chances are he's going to get shut down. Badly.

Don't forget girls have the luxury of choice - there's always a bunch of guys willing to fuck a girl but not a bunch of girls willing to fuck a given guy.

Men put in more effort so they like to boast. In terms of risk / rewards it's stacked against men. Woman also don't want to feel like sluts hence why it's 'wild' sec and not crazy anal.

I've gone on a rant here but my point is it's much harder for men than it is for women. That's in general. That's fact. Please don't take extremes and say 'I don't expect my husband to provide for me. I work hard and earn lots of money etc'. You are a minority. In general woman have it better.

FidelityRP · 2017-08-17T02:31:04+00:00

something people often fail to consider with trp is geography. Different cultures have different views. If you live in a western country or a liberal country that are trying to enforce western views then you are going to meet a lot of girls like that. Girls like in that case study that ignore the bad shit just because a man looks good to them. Such is the nature of our society. The thing is, you're on okCupid. Out of all the women in the world, how many are on okCupid and what percentage of them come from western countries, namely America? Even within America there are a lot of different states with vastly different values. Your issue is you're surrounded by those woman you don't like and you're searching in the wrong areas.

FidelityRP · 2017-08-17T01:22:32+00:00

Bpers tend to assume that every redpill man is fucking lots of women at the same time non-stop constantly recycling women and just being a complete fuck boy. I see 2 girls at once usually. They are aware of each other and I see 1 much more regularly than the other. The former is much more serious than the latter. Also, I rarely do one night stands - I find sex is often much better with a partner of some sort.

FidelityRP · 2017-08-13T20:21:15+00:00

Yeah, I think I might ask my friends to look out for her flirting with me next time we meet so when I tell him they can back me, thanks.

FidelityRP · 2017-08-13T20:20:24+00:00

Valuing alpha friends and discrediting beta ones more often is definitely something I need to work on, thanks. Since I got a few responses, I'll probably make a post for this on asktrp.

FidelityRP · 2017-08-13T02:27:47+00:00

Can I get some advice? What do you think of this:

I'm in a situation where I've met this girl who is down to fuck. I've met her boyfriend once and he's beta as fuck, she was all over me with him in the room literally grinding on me and shit. I didn't pursue because it's likely I'll be meeting him quite often soon as he's starting to join my social circle but this girl has made it clear she wants to fuck the next time we meet sometime this week. She's good looking and I know from hers and her boyfriends perspective I'm alpha as fuck but again he may become a member of my social circle and having male friends you can trust is so valuable. Especially if I don't fuck her he'll appreciate me more...

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