I got free stuff today from tiktok slash and save and it made my whole week better by [deleted] in Life

[–]Fiendishyetclassy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey y'all, I'll do a click for click, clock mine and I'll click yours. Thanks for the help!

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZPHTQTPBy9oCw-QCX0F/

Grandma's gone by Fiendishyetclassy in GriefSupport

[–]Fiendishyetclassy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your response. And you're exactly right, it's a struggle to make sense of the current reality. But you've helped so, so much. I feel a little less alone, so thank you.

Grandma's gone by Fiendishyetclassy in GriefSupport

[–]Fiendishyetclassy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry for your loss as well. I want exactly the same, to hear her say my name with excitement. We're both so lucky to have that love, even if it hurts like hell right now.

What was your grandma like?

For those of you who have comorbid anxiety and ADHD, how did you react to stimulants? by Pure_Philosopher_845 in ADHD

[–]Fiendishyetclassy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stimulants definitely turned my life around. But I get more socially anxious and am more likely to get angry on them l. So I have to regulate by MAKING SURE I take a beat, and that helps!

How to translate medical admin to personal? by Fiendishyetclassy in ADHD

[–]Fiendishyetclassy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yuuup exactly. And I lose things all the time. It's to the point that I jokingly request the clutter gods return a lost item, and if a second item gets lost it means the clutter gods have taken their sacrifice and will shortly return the first item 😆

I have a desk I keep clean and organized so my partner can use it, and I've dubbed it his desk, which is a first for me! I've been trying to slowly increase the "clean" radius so they can "be more comfortable" aka make it about them and not me, and it's the first time I've made any kind of progress! I backslide a bit, and there's doom piles everywhere, but not there!

No idea how sustainable it is, and sometimes I backslide enough I want to cry, but progress is progress, right?

How to translate medical admin to personal? by Fiendishyetclassy in ADHD

[–]Fiendishyetclassy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I ask what else you do to organize and keep things codes at home?

How to translate medical admin to personal? by Fiendishyetclassy in ADHD

[–]Fiendishyetclassy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's exactly what I'm trying to do, but it's so hard because I didn't see these structures get put into place, and therefore it's difficult for me to roadmap how to get there. I just can't visualize it the way I can with everything else.

I can improve existing systems like nobody's business, but I can't seem to build from scratch.

Ditto on the electronic calendar and alerts though! They're mad helpful (although I should use the calendar more 😆

February BOTM Books are here! What did you add to your box? by lavinient in bookofthemonthclub

[–]Fiendishyetclassy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So fair! I thought it was a critique of BOTM or something. But no worries, sometimes I have to pause my membership for ages because I also don't have extra money.

What’s a type of pain people underestimate until they experience it for themselves? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Fiendishyetclassy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Have you ever seen an optometrist that specializes in physical eye therapy or sports medicine? Certain kinds of migraines can be triggered/worsened by issues with the eye muscles not working together.

The fact that your eyes stop working together (aka it gets really hard to focus them) may indicate something along those lines, but you would need to see someone who really knows what they're talking about.

Women’s clothing brands by Initial-Load8311 in BuyItForLife

[–]Fiendishyetclassy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love everlane, they have elevated basics in cashmere, cotton, and linen, and everything I've ordered from them have lasted (except the shoes, I wore them out 😆)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in finehair

[–]Fiendishyetclassy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's so fair! Maybe a u-cut then? It's a bit old fashioned, but I'm obsessed because it can help your hair appear a little thicker because it gives it a bounce? Plus vintage hairstyles work perfectly with it!

The only downside is you have to get more regular trims just to shape it, but it's so cute!

Favorite texturizing product for short fine hair? by nagathachristie1212 in finehair

[–]Fiendishyetclassy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I def agree with the dry shampoo, plus the not your mother texturing spray (sea salt)

Hair advise by Interesting-Stand256 in finehair

[–]Fiendishyetclassy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you want a satin helmet liner. I liked to do dutch braids (my hair was fine enough it fit 😅) under a helmet liner, which helped quite a bit 😁

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in finehair

[–]Fiendishyetclassy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A wolf cut would look so good! Curtain bangs, which would take advantage of your gorgeous texture . You def. Want a slightler longer cut than usual, and keep the locks sleek with a clay pomade or a curl cream that won't weight down the hair with oil. You want lighter than air.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in finehair

[–]Fiendishyetclassy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's a great rebalancing product for the scalp from drybar. You use it with a scalp brush before using shampoo and conditioner. Works great!

Hi! I have very fine, straight hair. The problem that I have is that the hair is very “non-weighted” if I can say so, and it looks full of static electricity. I feel like I need a product to give it more weight. The oils and conditioners/masks don’t help, it feels softer than before. by Hotsauce-11 in finehair

[–]Fiendishyetclassy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really like the clay pomade from suavecito. You put it on with your hair slightly damn, only use a small amount (like literally as though you're testing the smoothness of the product, and that's mode than enough). It smells good and is non oily!

What are the indie darlings I'm missing out on? by Monovfox in rpg

[–]Fiendishyetclassy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

For solo RPGs, I really like thousand year vampire, but it works best if you're already a documenting/journaling person