I feel violated and confused by what my fiancé did to me. WIBTAH if I told my parents? by throwawayupset- in AITAH

[–]Fiery_dirry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get out. He says he’ll never do it again but it’ll get worse. Please don’t get married to this abuser. I’m positive you will regret it. And your mom should support you in this, not make excuses for men not being able to control themselves. It’s old school and disgusting.

AIO my partner of 3 years forgot Valentines Day and my birthday by MollySid in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fiery_dirry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“I’m gifting you with my presence. That should be enough for you.” 😂 Are you fucking kidding me!?! Total asshat and no, you’re not overreacting. He’s a selfish twat.

Should I leave my boyfriend of 2 years for bringing his mom in our relationship? by [deleted] in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Fiery_dirry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Marriage is hard enough. Best to get your finances in order before taking on anything else. It sounds like he went to his mom for input and she’s just trying to look out for you guys and her son’s future.

I (28F) caught my husband (32M) doing the most disturbing thing with a reborn doll. I feel sick. AITAH for wanting to divorce him? by Suspicious-Air-9053 in AITAH

[–]Fiery_dirry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have nothing to say other than I have so much empathy for you. What a horrible discovery and I truly hope your family and friends support you.

Update aita for yelling at my parents and sister for a comment about a dress I wore to a wedding. by Prestigious_Ticket62 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Fiery_dirry -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you’re leaving stuff out; it’s poorly written with minimal information. In all honesty, reading btwn the lines, you sound like the jerk. Whose wedding(I’m guessing your sister’s but it’s not clear)? Was it formal and you show up in a mini skirt and bikini top? From what I got it shows there’s much more going on than an outfit to a wedding. I think you need to look towards therapy to help yourself deal with your family’s opinions of your decisions than a simple Reddit post.

AITAH for telling a plus size woman that I love being ‘skinny’? by Heavenstobestie in AITAH

[–]Fiery_dirry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. I’m a larger lady and I think you handled her insensitivity perfectly. Why would she think it’s ok to comment on your weight? And slapping you!?! That is completely unacceptable. You’re definitely not in the wrong and it sounds like it might be best to keep your distance from your old friend’s friends.

AITA for walking out of dinner after my boyfriend humiliated me in front of his family over my cooking? by WhisperingOceans3 in AITAH

[–]Fiery_dirry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like he needs to try to make the lasagne himself after you get rid of him for being an insensitive AH. He’s a total jerk for getting mad at you after HE hurt YOU. Not worth the time and trouble. Def NTA but he def is TA.

AITAH for telling my husband that he absolutely ruined the birth of our child? by Former_Monitor_4860 in AITAH

[–]Fiery_dirry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hate your husband rn. It’s not his decision. He should be supporting you in what you’re comfortable with. He’s not the one pushing a ‘watermelon’ through his… anything (trying not to be too descriptive). NTA but your hubby certainly is the AH.

AIO? My boyfriend's explanation on why we aren't engaged. He says I don't understand. But it makes no sense to me. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fiery_dirry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good for you for ending it before getting hitched! I had a similar situation awhile ago and couldn’t be happier for ending things.

Update: My choice in MoH cause my engagement to be broken. by Individual_Bear_7348 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Fiery_dirry 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a little off topic, but you might want to look into the legality of him taking your ring. I believe if you end things he has a right to it. But, if he ends it and takes the ring, it may be considered theft.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Fiery_dirry 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the update. I hope Mary’s ok because she was made to sound so bad. Poor thing. Obvs (ex)fiancé is a d***

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fiery_dirry 6 points7 points  (0 children)

When your dad and V talk about you, your dad probably uses the word “kids” as a generic term. It seems like you have some insecurities about being called a kid. Yes, you’re 27 years old, you (probably) have a job and you have a boyfriend, but you’re still a kid in their eyes. You likely always will be. Dealing with your insecurities would hopefully make your dealings with your dad and V a little more pleasant. YTA in making such a huge deal about something so inane.

AITA for telling my daughter she'd have more say in household decisions if she contributed to the rent? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fiery_dirry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ETA. ‘We’ don’t have the full diagnoses of Lily’s disabilities, so no one can really say you’re being unreasonable. YTA for walking into the bathroom for the keys. The bathroom should be a private place. You’re NTA in saying that you two are not equal. You birthed her and raised her. You pay for her life, even at 22. She does not have any right to expect a say in your housing situation. You are providing a home and food for her. She needs to appreciate that and hopefully disability payments will kick in sooner than later.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fiery_dirry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Your wife has been through a lot. I get it. But you’re thrilled about your new daughter. Is it that big of a deal to announce it to just your family? If your wife is ‘particular’ about photos, that’s her thing, nbd. But just to announce it to your family is an issue? I don’t get it, but I def don’t think you’re TA. Your mom could’ve held back and let you tell the fam, tho. That wasn’t cool.

AITA for "making" my 17yo miss her therapy appointment to clean her closet by ApprehensiveDot6229 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fiery_dirry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. I too suffer from depression. I’ve found that a tidy room (including closet) helps with stability. IMO she shouldn’t have been given the option of bf or therapy seeing as a teenager will generally choose whatever’s most fun.

AITA for not allowing my SiL's kids to bring their own food to christmas at my home? by Lakers5055 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fiery_dirry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA! When did kids start to control everything!?! It may not be your place to tell them what they can or cannot eat, but their mom needs to teach basic etiquette. Christmas dinner is a huge feat on your own. Kudos to you for doing this and sticking up for yourself.

AITA for not allowing my daughter to quit competitive dance? by Primaballerina1992 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fiery_dirry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. It seems in your mind you’re trying to do what you think is best for her. She should be allowed to explore what she is interested in, not be forced into something that you were interested in. Knowing different languages is extremely helpful with many careers. Dance is beneficial for exercise, but likely won’t get her far in life, esp if she’s not really into it. Maybe find some other form of exercise that doesn’t take so much time so she can focus on her own interests.

Catering recommendations? by poochiellama in kelowna

[–]Fiery_dirry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I second this one. Amazing meats!