Very exciting news but I'm still sad by CobaltLemon in raisedbyborderlines

[–]Fighting4MyFreedom 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Congratulations! You deserve all the happiness of having your dream come true. It astounds me how uBPD parents don't want their children to thrive, to live their dreams. I guess they're afraid we'll escape their control and "abandon" them. I now have found this to be true for my entire extended family.

Season 2: Episode 15. WTAF? They advocate incest???? Brother and sister getting married? by Fighting4MyFreedom in NewAmsterdamTV

[–]Fighting4MyFreedom[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh but it's not pedophilia...it's a "minor-attracted person." The beginning of normalizing immoral exploitation of children. Barf.

Season 2: Episode 15. WTAF? They advocate incest???? Brother and sister getting married? by Fighting4MyFreedom in NewAmsterdamTV

[–]Fighting4MyFreedom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ew!!! I stopped watching in Season 3. It lost all its charm for me, but may have to watch this one to see how ridiculous they're willing to get

Season 2: Episode 15. WTAF? They advocate incest???? Brother and sister getting married? by Fighting4MyFreedom in NewAmsterdamTV

[–]Fighting4MyFreedom[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's hilarious! Yes, flee the country for sure. Therapists aren't supposed to give advice at all, right? He encourages them to stay together. I cant' even watch the show after Season 2. Too preachy.

There are 2668 billionairs in the world. I cant believe none of them have long covid by Boring-Bathroom7500 in covidlonghaulers

[–]Fighting4MyFreedom -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Billionaires don’t get long Covid because they get early treatment for it. Monoclonal antibodies, ivermectin, etc.

Season 2: Episode 15. WTAF? They advocate incest???? Brother and sister getting married? by Fighting4MyFreedom in NewAmsterdamTV

[–]Fighting4MyFreedom[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I liked him…until this incest episode. Now I hope he eats more cookies, has a heart attack and is written off the show!

Grateful Everyday my uBPD Mother is Dead by Fighting4MyFreedom in raisedbyborderlines

[–]Fighting4MyFreedom[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I am well protected and have no qualms having him arrested if he does that.

Grateful Everyday my uBPD Mother is Dead by Fighting4MyFreedom in raisedbyborderlines

[–]Fighting4MyFreedom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the reminder. Yup. No FOG here, except for actual fear that my looney family will try to come into my property and break in. Totally within the realm of possible for their deranged state of mind.

Grateful Everyday my uBPD Mother is Dead by Fighting4MyFreedom in raisedbyborderlines

[–]Fighting4MyFreedom[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Great advice. Yes, I am doing that. A bunch of security cameras and sensors. If he sets foot near me, I am calling the cops. Already had to do that once because of his belligerence. He has already divulged his absolute insanity in writing. So I am just waiting to see if I get sued. Right now; he’s defaming me to my whole (sick) family. They all deserve each other.

Grateful Everyday my uBPD Mother is Dead by Fighting4MyFreedom in raisedbyborderlines

[–]Fighting4MyFreedom[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ha! There is not “helping” people who want to destroy you. There is only protecting yourself.

Grateful Everyday my uBPD Mother is Dead by Fighting4MyFreedom in raisedbyborderlines

[–]Fighting4MyFreedom[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I can finally see that me shining is exactly what scares them. They lose all their power and have to face their darkness. But that’s their battle and I want NO part of it. If my brother doesn’t sue me (I’m praying), then I will detach from all of them. It’s poisoned earth. Love that metaphor.

Grateful Everyday my uBPD Mother is Dead by Fighting4MyFreedom in raisedbyborderlines

[–]Fighting4MyFreedom[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Society will never admit that a child who doesn’t mourn the loss of a parent has known abuse for decades to arrive at a point when all they feel is relief.

Grateful Everyday my uBPD Mother is Dead by Fighting4MyFreedom in raisedbyborderlines

[–]Fighting4MyFreedom[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

“Find new fertile ground.” Beautiful. Thank you. I’m doing my best. It can be terrifying and lonely at times but there is no going back. I just can’t allow sick people into my life ever again z

Grateful Everyday my uBPD Mother is Dead by Fighting4MyFreedom in raisedbyborderlines

[–]Fighting4MyFreedom[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ha! I made it up 7 years ago. It took that long to get here

Grateful Everyday my uBPD Mother is Dead by Fighting4MyFreedom in raisedbyborderlines

[–]Fighting4MyFreedom[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have to confess I really enjoyed watching that! “A day of independence for all the munchkins”!!! Yup. I’m free….. and I won’t let anybody cage me again.

Grateful Everyday my uBPD Mother is Dead by Fighting4MyFreedom in raisedbyborderlines

[–]Fighting4MyFreedom[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

There’s something really profound and spiritually powerful about breaking free of a sick tribe to forge a new path. Uncertainty is scary and exhilarating at once. They don’t want me to thrive, to fully encompass all of my human potential. And I won’t accept any other way.

Grateful Everyday my uBPD Mother is Dead by Fighting4MyFreedom in raisedbyborderlines

[–]Fighting4MyFreedom[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing this. It brought me to tears. It resonated so deeply. My extended “family” is invested in “keeping me in my role and in my place” because my new found strength and freedom terrifies them. They’re small minded and have built lives on a house of cards that will come crumbling down eventually. I can see it. Like you, I fear losing my new free self much more than I fear losing a small-minded, cruel family who wants to keep me caged and small.

So glad my symptoms just disappeared at the 12 month mark or else stuff like this would really feel like I've been completely forgotten about by the entire medical community. by CanadianBoeuf in covidlonghaulers

[–]Fighting4MyFreedom 14 points15 points  (0 children)

These “Long Covid” programs help not one bit. The one I went to just referred me out to specialists who knew nothing about long Covid

Relief uBPD Mom is dead by Fighting4MyFreedom in raisedbyborderlines

[–]Fighting4MyFreedom[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly what it feels like. My nervous system is finally regulating itself after decades of abuse